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I'm not the skinniest or prettiest girl and I've been bullied for it my entire life so far. Nor have I had lots of friends. A lot of the time I think about what I'd be like on a paralell universe, lots of friends, skinny and beautiful and in a way it makes me feel better, IIN?
I think about this all the time actually. You could say it's my fantasy world.I imagine alternate versions of myself and how I would look.I know that I'll never meet up with myself but it still feels good to pretend. I merely imagine cause I want to see the world from a new perspective. One where I get the girl and I'm not socially awkward. Of course, this is just a dream.
However, you should ignore those bullies and start working on your self esteem. I've never seen you but you sound like you have a great personality. People these days, mainly teens, are very judgmental. You shouldn't let those bullies get to you. You're probably a better person than they are. Look in the mirror and you'll see that you are very pretty. This is just a little belief I've grown to have, because I kind of have a low self esteem myself, but there is someone out there who finds you attractive. I know that people putting you down can make you feel bad about yourself, but trust me, at the end of the day all that matters is that you see yourself as an attractive and confident person. I hope that you see yourself this way at the end of the day, every day.
I like to imagine a version of me in a parallel universe who is the fattest, ugliest, stupidest, most socially awkward person ever. No matter how badly my life sucks at least I'm not that other me, and if all the versions of me from all the parallel universes ever met I would definitely not be the worst one. It makes me feel better about myself and helps me appreciate the good qualities I have.
I think about that as well :) maybe i have a really good relationship in a parallel universe. Maybe I am making a lot of money.... Ahhh dreaming.