Is it normal that i think about girls?

I've always been attracted to guys. They always seem to hurt me though. Whether I getting cheated on, or not being treated right. For a few months, I was wondering about girls. I found this girl, and I really liked her. We dated, but secretely. (None of my friends know anything about it.) She was the first and only girl Ive kissed. We dated for about 2 months, and decided to break it off. It's hard to live a secret life! Anyways, now all I can think about is girls. I've hooked up with some guys, but it's not the same.
Is it normal to kiss girls, even date them?
I'm surely not gay, but I'm starting to wonder. What do you think?
Guys or girls, help me pick.

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Based on 167 votes (144 yes)
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Comments ( 25 )
  • Sounds like ur bi curious. Its k though.

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  • AyushBhat

    It is only normal if you are a straight boy :)

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  • Shnaz

    Do you really need to ask?

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  • baller08

    Wow just stumbled across this lol

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  • Loves501s

    I remember one time sitting in a classroom listening to a young and rather attractive looking mother talking about her teenage son, saying out loud: my son just recently turned fourteen and all he ever talks about is girls. At the time I was listening to this I thought: What was she thinking to say this kind of stuff out loud in public, when it is extremely obvious that her son is exploring his sexuality, and without any doubt, doing a heck of a lot of masturbating!

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  • Aazhian

    I think that is normal..I've thought about it also after I broke up with my ex..I have never even kissed a girl or done anything sexual with one but I thought really hard I love dick too much lol but go with ur feelings

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  • BarNGrill

    Absolutely normal. Go for it and enjoy your girlfriend with benefits and likes to talk about guys.

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  • sam94

    Depending on how old you are. If you're young you have a big voice but if you're elder then it's probably btter to stic with guys

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  • supaflyafro

    if u still like both then CHOOSE both. its totally up to u cuz u should do wut makes u happy and not worry if ppl will treat u differently, if dats the case. if u do wut makes u feel happy then ur a BAMF! its normal alright AND its hot

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  • shadowkin101

    well mate myself i would pick girls cause i would but everyone has there own choice what do you prefer think and reply

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  • taiko1840

    Society has decided for us was is normal and what is not. What is acceptable. In the day s on the Romans orgys with both accepted and widely practiced. It u r comfortable with it, its ok.

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  • elvalil

    bi RULES:) u r not alone. It's totally normal

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  • kelcb1234

    I used to worry about my sexuality. People say that labeling yourself isn't necessary. But I found that by saying "I'm bisexual and I am attracted to both sexes", I felt better and more comfortable with myself. Have both, enjoy both. You will find that one person, no matter what sex, that makes the decision for you. So don't worry about it!

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  • you just pick the gender u like better. or be bi and go wit both.

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  • NavsegdaVashi

    Date any gender you want. You do not have to categorize yourself by saying gay, lesbian, or bisexual. Love and happiness is what counts.

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  • baller08

    Thanks guys :) that really helps me :) should I tell my friends?

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  • kaylakay

    don't be afraid of your sexuality and any judgment that will come with it. as long as your happy, there is no right or wrong gender for you.

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  • heartbrokenbutterfly

    people are people, regarless of sex. dont worry about it! i think its normal, there is no need to put a title on it. just go with it and dont worry.

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  • avocadism

    just choose the one u like from the bottom of ur heart. there are always the advantages and disadvantages between gender u know. :)

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  • loving2toplay

    You can be with both. Nothing is wrong to have both.

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  • stickman

    Go with girls you'll get to be dominate and be with someone who won't want to cheat on u as much

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  • gowila

    Did you go all the way? I know a girl who dated a girl until they had sex and after that she never touched a girl again

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    • TheGuruOfTheSauce

      no I think this problem is like beer, the more you drink it the better it tastes

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      • jean

        Exactly

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  • c3po950

    im a guy so i say pick guys

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