Is it normal that i think about a guy i fancy a lot?

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I recently saw, and was talking to this guy on two occassions..my mums best friends son... after not seeing him for years and I really fancy him im 21 and he's 30... this is a normal age gap 4me I only really like older guys.. but since I seen him I can't stop thinkin about him.. is this ott and obsessive or does everyone do this when they fancy someone a lot?

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  • treehugga
    13 years ago

    'nobody says that' =D=D=D let me guess ur american! im fuckin irish man n WE say that!! so LOTS of ppl DO say that!!!

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  • yu-gi-ohChampion25
    8 years ago

    yeah it's awesome you're getting preyed on by a 30 year old man fuck yeah.

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    bloody hell yes it's normal to 'fancy' a boy if ure a girl, wait r u a girl...

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    Why do you say fancy? Nobody says that. Only British people say that.

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    what kind of a question is this... of course it's normal... You think about people you like. :P
    .......... completely normal.

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  • treehugga
    14 years ago

    but i mean ..is it normal that i think about him a LOT or is that obsessive?

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    • mtnw
      14 years ago

      it is normal to think about him constantly if you are infatuated with him.

      put your mom on the case, she can talk to her friend and see if he's available and/or interested. i hope he is:)

      being infaturated with someone is a wonderful feeling, and no, it's not obsessive. dream about your dream man and enjoy!

      of course, if you find out that he is involved with another woman, or just not interested, it becomes obsessive if you don't move past it.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    it's fine. you are an adult now, and the age difference, because you two are still both young, shouldn't be an issue. go for it!

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  • [Old Memory]
    14 years ago

    It is exciting and I hope you enjoy every minute of it wherever it does or doesn't go!

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