Is it normal that i think a lot about him?

I dont know whether obsessing is the right word but I randomly think about him, a lot, throughout the day.. I dont know why but I really really love him a lot and it has been a little over 2 years since we are together. I know he loves me too but I dont find him too dedicated towards our relationship. Maybe thats his nature or not.. but there will be times when he suddenly messages me that he loves me and that just makes my day.. It hurts if we fight and I randomly cry thinking about how much I love him, future etc.. Is this normal?

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67% Normal
Based on 18 votes (12 yes)
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  • geeteeel

    It's not normal but it is good.

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  • This_guy_is_normal

    my girlfriend did the same thing . so i had left her.

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  • thegypsysailor

    Sounds pretty normal to me, except for the crying thing. Being in love with someone who you don't think loves you as you wish to be loved, can be difficult.
    I'd suggest enjoying whatever time you have with your guy and let the future sort itself out. I doubt there's anything to guaranty the future you wish to have, but trying to do so could ruin everything.

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    • bluerain23

      He was very possessive for the first year of our relationship and that used to make me mad because I allowed him to talk to anyone he wants.. but now he has changed and me too.. I became a lot more possessive now and he isnt liking it because he isnt possessive anymore.. I dont know why but it kinda hurts when I know he is going out with others more often than we do or talk.. I tried explaning this to him but he doesnt listen.. I held myself back for him for the first year and now he isnt doing that for me

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