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We hang out like two times a week and we rarely talk. We just started dating about two months ago. Isn't that the "can't stay away from you" stage of a relationship? I try texting him and stuff but he takes hours to reply and it's usually short answers. This can't be a healthy start to a relationship.
I can't vote yes or no because it's different for everyone. I hardly talk to my gf, but we see each other at least once a week or more. I hate texting people and some people are just bad texters. However, it is kind of bad that I would rather hangout with my friends than her. Maybe you two just aren't head over heels for each other. That's not a horrible thing. I was more in love with my ex than I am my current gf. So I guess it would be more on the not normal side, but that depends on your personalities.
I love my boyfriend but I hate texting and he wants to text 24/7 because he's super busy and we only see each other once a week. But it gets so annoying we literally text 24/7 and FaceTime every time he's on lunch break. He even gets in trouble at work for texting me all the time. I do tell him to focus on his work but all he wants to do is text..... I hateeeeeeeee texting. Some people just don't like texting.
I think it's 100% normal. I'm a lazy texter myself! And unless me and my gf or friends are engaging in passionate debate, or topic, then I'll likely take hours to text back too. Lazy texters can't help it :P
If you do want him to text more often maybe trying engaging in a debate? Find out what he's passionate about. My girlfriend found out I LOOVEEE debating politics so now she always asks me political questions, and sometimes we'll spend days texting none stop. And that gets us closer.
Nope, not normal.
If a guy likes you he texts back quickly unless he's intentionally trying to not look desperate.
When a guy likes you he's constantly trying to get you to suck his dick or fuck him or at least spend time together.
I don't think that's the case here because he doesn't spend much time with you.
It sounds like you think he's your bf but he doesn't really care.
He's certainly not really into that much.
Sorry.
I think maybe he has a hidden agenda and is a closet cocksucker or is out getting corn holed...
I wouldn't want to be in a relationship like that. How can what you described even be considered dating if the two of you hardly even talk to each other?