Is it normal that i take this as in insult?

I suffered from clinical depression some years ago but meds have worked so that I can function and I can assure you that this @sshole is the last person in your life that you need. He's a liar - saying he wants to marry you but says you can take his insults or leave. OK thanks, I'd leave!!

This creep is controlling you and keeping you down - no wonder your meds aren't working to their full extent with him working on you.

Anyway, you should be really proud of yourself! You get up and go to the gum :o) I couldn't even manage to drink a cup of tea that was put into my hand. I don't think that people leave you when you become friends, I think you probably withdraw from them by not answering the door or phone etc. I'm sure you've heard it from the psychiatrists but you need to go out for one little chore per day. Not the gym, to buy milk or to get a magasine etc. One little thing at a time! Then it becomes 2 a day ... next thing you know you'll be going to college classes :o)

I found it useful to focus on other people's problems - you could be on here for hours a day and realise your life is great compared to some ;o) If you live alone, I'm sure you have neighbours you could say hello to. Or maybe even elderly ones you could ask if they needed a little shopping, or leave their bin out, or walk their little dog etc. I find that once you start helping other people, they like you and become your friends.

You go girl. I know you can get through this!
BTW if you look good - smile! Don't look sour, and you'll attract friends, even if you are faking it!!

Hi

I've played a lot of MMORPGs, WOW is extremely addicting especially for social rejects such as yourself.

The problem is, rather than deal with your problems you hide in this online world and only think about how miserable your situation is.

I used to play everquest for 20-30hrs a week, with a full time job and family. It's an absolute dead end. You need to break this now when your young.

You cannot underestimate the power of the Sun and some good exercise. Take up rollerblading or try running if you are in a decent climate.

Go the public library, get involved with the community. If you are fat, lose weight (see above) If you are ugly, don't worry, there are lots of people out there who are not "skin" deep people.

There is so much to do when you finally unplug. I know this, from experience.

This guy you are dealing with is a typical online douche. He's 19 with Zero life plans, Wants to have a family? He's 19? I bet he's 12-14 and trying to get cheap thrills from cybering with you.

Unplug, do it now for everyone's good.

-Pantz

You should really remove yourself from that relationship because you may not realize it, but that is almost verbal abuse and no one should be treated that way. You deserve better, you really need to find your self worth. I am your friend so you have one real friend now.

Pumped up kicks you are awesome!

World of Warcraft and dating that person 1st mistake

Not having friends is from playing world of warcraft. Throw the game out and go out and start to make friends. Video games are a waste of life. No im not some old dude saying this im 19 there is WAY better things to do than play video games.

Maybe if you stopped playing online and start going out and doing stuff and going places you would find friends. And not be depressed. He's no better off himself. Calling you a loser and so on. Get out there go to the mall or Walmart. Just put yourself out there. And not normal!

maybe hes right lol...

Chocolate is good for this :)

He takes pleasure in exerting power over you, that's a bad sign. He probably KNOWS that you will accept his behaviour, because you're scared to loose your only friend. A real friend wouldn't act in this way.

Try turning the tide: if HE doesn't stop acting this way, YOU will leave HIM. The next time he says something bad to you, leave. He will probably come crawling back to you... Don't forget you're also important to him. He won't like loosing your friendship. Why else would he want to be your fiend? And don't be the first one to give in, because that's exactly what he wants.

Okay, it's normal that you put up with the things he says to you, even though it makes you sad. I think you dont want to get him mad so he will leave you, and then you will mis him. But stand up for yourself! If you Dont like it, tell him. Or you can give him a taste of his own medicine, if you know what i mean:)

This is obviously an incredibly normal situation.

I dont think the game is the issue, although I do understand that in some instances it can be a strong manipulator. I also play casually, literally an hour or 2 a week because I also have a life and other interests. Although I don't have depression so I can't understand what you're going through in that respect, but in terms of being treated like shit nobody deserves that, incl. You. The game is an easy way to get lost in another world, and sometimes that can be good to unwind, but not for hours or days on end. Try find other interests and social groups that can help you slowly work out of the depression and meet someone who lifts you up, not puts you down. Good luck.

Fuck him!hes an asss hole!u shouldnt have to take tht!

tell him he's hurting your feelings if he continues give him the cold shoulder then he'll understand

You do deserve much much better! That guy sounded like a total jerk. There are tons of people online. I'm not a fan of the whole online thing but you can definitely find other ppl to talk to online. Anyway I feel like I have a lot in common with you so I know it can be really tough. The liver failure is not cool. I was going through that last year. I'm sure that if you get out there and meet new people at college you will do fine. Hang in there and lose the guy!

Don't put up with that! You deserve better than this guy. He seems like a real jerk. There's a difference between joking around, and actually verbally abusing someone and that's what this guy is doing to you. You have the right to have a relationship (any kind, friendship, significant other, etc) where you aren't being called names! You know what's good about this? You can change it and be happy. :) he isn't someone you even know irl, you can shut him off and move on..its going to be hard, but its possible. Think about you..you want to be happy..and this guy isn't making you happy because you went as far as come here to ask if its normal..I understand how hard it is to go out if you're suffering from depression..I know because I am the same way..I also play WoW and understand how easy it is to get sucked into it..but you have your whole life ahead of you! You want to go to college, and create a life..I think once you get into it, it will be easier to make friends and go out more..just because he is your only source of interaction, doesn't mean you need to stick with him. There are plenty of guys out there (even on wow if that's something that makes it easier for you) that will treat you with respect. Sorry for the wall of text!

Whoops I accidentally pressed yes I ment to put no. Ok so when he does this just tell him you DON'T like it and it makes you sad, then he might stop. You should not have to put up with this you all ready are depressed, just ask him nicely to stop because it hurts you
;) hope I helped

He is the way he is that dosnt mean that he cant change and if he say hes just joking he has a bad humor...

Is he really joking? Whether or not he is, tell him it hurts your feelings. Or break up with him if you don't want to put up with it. As for your depression problem, I suggest you talk to your doctor. You may need anti-depressants. I've been diagnosed with depression too and I'm on meds for it, and it really does help.

just so you know you have 2 different questions so your poll results may not be accurate:
dont put up with it if it makes you feel little.

I tend to tease people I'm with but in a kind of way that doesn't hurt them. This doesn't sound like what's going on here. Perhaps not being able to read each other's body language, he's not aware of how he's hurting you. Although he does say that this is the way he is, and refuses to change.

I suppose you have a decision to make, don't you? And none of us can do it for you.

Those are some pretty nasty comments. If you told him how it makes you feel and he continues to insult you, leave his ass! You deserve respect and I find it weird that he does this because it seems like something high school girls do. Anyway, God knows there's plenty of guys on WoW looking for girlfriends!