Is it normal that i subconsciously try to make people dislike me?

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I haven't been on here for months-but here I am drawn back like a moth to the flame

Aaaaannyway. Recently I've noticed that whenever someone gets "too close" for example they make advances or show interest (even if is just innocent) I can't help but subconsciously push them away. I have no sex drive at all and the thought of being emotionally close to someone terrifies me (because of the potential physical aspect to that relationship)
As a result I just put up a wall and actively act like a complete arse to that person-even if previously they were one of my closest friends.

It's getting lonely - so I was wondering if you had any advice or experienced a similar thing? (I'm aware that it's normal just wondered how others dealt with it)

Cheers in advance

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  • EdgeFencer
    10 years ago

    I've been rejected by enough girls to realize I'm better off going asexual. And when ever someone is attracted to me I don't really act on it as well. Since I know once they get to know me that'll be the end of it for sure. to fear the physical interaction of a relationship is really unusual to me.. But acting ignorant and mean isn't the right way to go about avoiding serious relationships.

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  • yu-gi-ohChampion25
    8 years ago

    i was like this for years untill i realized it was stupid.

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  • slutzombie
    10 years ago

    Do you mean romantically, or any kind of relationship?

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