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I have a hard time talking with guys/men. For some reason, old or middle-aged men(especially married men) love talking to me, but guys my age or a little older (i'm 18), don't like to talk to me. Why???
You should walk into your local pub with a tshirt on thats says "I give handjobs to people who speak to me" and I promise you all men of all ages will speak to you
I have a problem talking to MOST girls. You only have a problem with some so its totally normal
I'm guessing ur uptight and ( sorry for the bluntness) boring, safe, predictable. U want to b vivacious, spontaneous, flirty, fun
oh one more reason
you act like their moms. they are old enough to take care of themselfs. they don't need you to treat them like if you were their mom. that tottaly freaks guys out
well there are many reasons.
1- those middle aged guys are perverts
2- the middle aged guys look at you and think "my slutty daughter should be like her. totally. maybe if i talk to her i can understand where i went wrong in my daughter education" lol
3- they look at you and wish they had a daughter
4- you look at them and "it's like talking with my father"
5- you don't feel at ease with younger guys and that's something you need to figure out for yourself
6- they look at you and you are too hot
7 - they look at you and you are too ugly (lol i've no idea at all never meet you)
8- you have the "freak guys out vibes" - it's something a lot of people have. it's just something you say or something you do.
9- you have the "freak hot guys out vibes" - normal guys get along with you but the other ones (that are hot and popular and seem to get along with everyone even the akward girl next door) freak out cause you are not what they are used to. you don't fall for them and you don't fall for their made up stories and you don't believe in their lies. you don't go out when they go, you actually care about your career and you don't think that smoking it's "cool" (it isn't ok? you're just killing yourself and others. and you get ugly) and you don't get super wasted or go to friends houses in vacations with no parents in the middle. you don't speak the same body language that they do. they look at you and see that you are "out of their reach". you actually have a life and a future so the rest doesn't really matter.
if you have those vibes it is totally normal really. you are perfect but you simply are slutty enough. and that's great actually cause when they get older and get more mature you will see that they will look at you and see you as you are and unlike the other girls who they liked before you are the one they actually are interested in. so don't worry. guys are tottaly like that. believe me. it's really difficult to find good men. they only grow up very late so we need to wait. lol if it's not any of those reasons than i don't know. good luck anyway