Is it normal that i (straight male) suddenly like men sexually?

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Important: Hi, Before I begin I would like to let every reader know where I am from it is frowned to be gay or bisexual while its not a crime I might be shunned by the community so I created this throwaway account just to be on the safe side

I am 23M and since I was a child I just lived life the way everyone else around me did, I liked girls and wanted to befriend them and of course as years passed I hit puberty too then I developed sexual attraction to women as well but that wasn't all I suddenly had sexual attraction towards men too (not romantic just sexual) but it diminished at age 17 as years progressed but now some years later it returned I suddenly developed a liking to penis I don't even find vagina attractive anymore just penis. It's like I want to drop my pants and bend over for a man. Any time I see a man it isn't romantic attraction I just imagine how would it look like if I have his dick and cum in me, all I can think about these days is dick and how bad I want it every time I'm doing something that thought is interrupted with this urge

To find a man and sexually please him either by sucking his dick or taking his sperm in my back

I still have romantic feeling towards opposite gender only but I can't seem to stop thinking about penis It is like I am possessed and like this is what I was meant to be, sexually submissive and to please men

Any idea what could be happening? P.S I don't intend to give up on who I am and if this is who I am I intend to follow my urges just because everyone might frown upon me later on in life

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  • Tommythecaty
    2 years ago

    You’re not straight and were never close to straight.

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  • fatok
    2 years ago

    straight, bi, gay, who care about labels? Sex is great doing what ever turns you on. Go ahead and take some dick

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  • DADNSCAL
    2 years ago

    You sound bisex to me. I know. I am too.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      You mean to say finding penis attractive makes me bi?

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      • DADNSCAL
        2 years ago

        Yes, I would say. Str8 guys may check others’s cocks, but they don’t get all excited when they see them.

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  • RoseIsabella
    2 years ago

    Well, let's get one thing straight, you're not straight. You're kinda crooked.

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      If I am romantically attracted to a woman that makes me straight doesn't it? I only said I like dicks not men in general

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      • RoseIsabella
        2 years ago

        If you prefer snails to clams you are not straight.

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          2 years ago

          Please explain how?

          Maybe I should clarify

          I am attracted to a woman romantically (which is what a straight man does)

          (Sorry for the language I am about to use ahead)

          I just like men with big dicks and muscular body in a sexual way nothing else I like sucking dick and taking it in the ass

          This doesn't mean I don't love the woman romantically
          Just because I find penises hot and vaginas ugly doesn't make me any less straight than others

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          • RoseIsabella
            2 years ago

            The more you try to clarify, and explain this away the gayer you sound.

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    2 years ago

    Thanks friend this is helpful I will definitely try this out

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  • KholatKhult
    2 years ago

    Yeah I’m not reading that whole mess

    There’s a difference between being gay and being a pervert - you’re probably just a pervert

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    • Anonymous Post Author
      2 years ago

      If you had actually seen what I am trying to convey maybe you'll say something different but its thank you for not being helpful

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      • KholatKhult
        2 years ago

        You mentioned dicks 6 times bro. You’re not gay you just got a dick fetish

        You can’t physically type out the words “sperm in my back” and expect warm-hearted emotional responses

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        • Anonymous Post Author
          2 years ago

          This is what I am trying to mention I am obsessed suddenly for no reason and I typed exactly how I feel and thought it was important to mention my urges in detail so it might be easy for others to identify what is actually going on

          If possible please help me out I'm stressed out

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          • KholatKhult
            2 years ago

            You’re 23, probably just going through a horny phase, you’re probably also idle and bored too often. Working out curbs a lot of hormonal issues, and staying busy will get your mind right.

            Porn will only make your life worse, that mess is toxic as all hell and trains you to become dopamine-fried and dependent on it. And if your mental health isn’t in an ideal spot, you’re likely looking for big, eventful, feel-good moments instead which will throw you into a pattern of either riding a high or crashing.

            It isn’t the end of the world, but if you don’t learn better behaviour control you’re bound to fall into patterns that will upset you further. Check your media, you might be Pavlov-dogging yourself into being too horny too often if all of your media connections are heavily sexed.

            Look up Compulsive Sexual Behaviour, I wouldn’t look for a diagnosis in anything, but there are a few techniques and tips that might help. Don’t do drugs or drink, it’ll only make you frustrated

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