Is it normal that i still want to be with him

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Is it normal that me and my bf have been going together for seven months and I moved in with him a little over a month ago but he told me two weeks ago he didn't feel the same as he use to about me but he still wants to work things out ...he seems like he's starting to be like him self again but he still hasn't told me he loves me like he use to and I still tell him I love him ...is it normal for me to still want to be with him ?

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flowers123

12 years ago

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flowers123

12 years ago

I tried I was gunna give him a nice relaxing message while wearing something sexy but when he came home and I told him I had a surprise for him he didn't really say much and when I came into out bed room he was asleep ._.

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- joybird
  
  12 years ago
  
  And you are the idiot who asked IIN to want to get pregnant?!
  
  I suggest you watch Judge Judy before you have to appear on it!!!
  
  Don't try to trap him with that one coz he'll dump your sorry @ss and you won't see him for the dust!!
  
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  - KeepSmiling
    
    12 years ago
    
    omg i had no idea she had so many other messeges, omg this all seems like a fake now.
    
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- KeepSmiling
  
  12 years ago
  
  if he was asleep then you should have started to trail him with kisses!!!! Giggle with him, if he pushed you away, he could have had a very stressful day at work. Give him time. everyday get a little more friendlier,
  
  If you don't feel like smiling, then you need to find things that make you feel alive.
  Do an intense workout one night, try painting something , even if it's just splashing colours on a piece of paper!
  Look up the wesite Damn lol.com (:
  It's all about funny pictures!! when you see a funny video or picture, wright down the capttion then when he comes home tell him you want to show him something funny! (:
  
  or better yet, when he comes home jump on him, wrap your legs around him in a bear hug!!!
  
  I do all these things with my boyfriend, we laugh sooo hard.
  When my boyfriend gives me the cold shoulder or something, I smile, poke him, or Jump on him,
  I do things to make me laugh, he looks at me and feels happier (:
  
  all of these things are helpful
  
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flowers123

12 years ago

Thanks I'll keep that in mind for when he gets off work tomorrow!

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- KeepSmiling
  
  12 years ago
  
  also Build a fort hahahaha sounds sooo silly but it's actually an amzing experience to build this awesome fort in the living room, then have hot sex underneath :P You wake up feeling wild, young and fresh. (:
  
  Just saying, I'm full of these little moments that many people ignore!!
  
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KeepSmiling

12 years ago

Of course it's normal for you to still want to be with him!

The thing is, when couples first move in with each other all their real emotions, behaviours and actions start to show.
Alot of couples do break apart after moving in with each other, and this is usually because they picture "the perfect person". You need to accept everything about him, and communicate through everything.
Keep things alive
An exmaple I love is when he comes home from work have a fully loaded Nerf gun on the table with a note that says "heres your gun, I have one too, and your under attack as of now".
Things like that are spontaneous and it keeps things wild between you too. Instead of falling into a boring mediocre routine,
you could bring things to his life that he will love and will miss if hes not with you. He will appreciate it and fall in love with you all over again.

Good Luck!

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