Is it normal that i still think about her constantly?

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I only dated this girl for like two months, but if you include how long we were "talking" it's like four months. She dumped me pretty much outta the blue like two or three months ago so ud think I'd be over her by now. I've been with other girls but I still think about her. Not really like I'm sad wen I think about her, I just think about her a lot. She was my first actual gf n the hottest girl I've been with (call me shallow but that fact is relevant) what do u think? Should I be over her by now?

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  • Tommythecat.
    10 years ago

    Because she was your first gf it'll probably stay on your mind awhile. I wouldn't worry about it, it's perfectly normal.

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  • sonofhawk01
    10 years ago

    Trust me, it's absolutely normal to still think about her, especially if the breakup was sudden, and even more so because she was your first. My first girlfriend decided that she was lesbian after six months of dating -- had convinced herself she was bisexual the whole time -- and despite the fact that the heartache and anguish has faded somewhat since then, there's not a day that goes by when I don't think about her.

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  • GreatArt
    10 years ago

    Males are a protective species and you cant easily let go but it becomes weird when you ponder a person too long. Í mean, we've gotta move on.

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