Is it normal that i still think about her?

When I was in high school I had a crush on a girl. Back then, I thought I really liked her and tried to tell her how I felt but she never gave me a chance to. Anyways, now it has been a few years and I am in college. Now, I haven't talked to this girl in a couple years and have little interest in ever having a relationship with her. But, its odd because her name still seems to cross my mind all the time. Is that normal? Secondly, would that be normal for me to try to get in touch with her just to be friends with no intention of any sort of relationship?

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93% Normal
Based on 40 votes (37 yes)
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  • magicsupermilk

    Sounds like me. There was a girl I liked a lot in high school who I never really knew that well, but I got kind of fixated on her. I haven't seen her in years, and I think she's even married now, and I particularly care whether or not I ever see her again, but I still have (platonic) dreams about her occasionally.

    She was the first girl I ever really liked that much (or thought I liked anyway). I think there's kind of an imprinting effect with a "first love".

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