Is it normal that i still think about a guy who i never see anymore?

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Okay so there was this guy about two summers ago who I met a sports camp. We got on super duper well and we began texting and flirting all the time. He was really really flirty and I really really really liked him, he was kind of the first guy I stood a chance with. But I was 16 and it was that awkward teenagey kind of summer thing and we never actually went out because we were both to embarassed to admit we liked each other. Is it normal that I still think about him all the time? I always compare guys to him, he made me laugh so much and we just had this connection. I'm now 18 and he just moved to Spain...Spain! and I STILL think about him. I know his Dad pretty well (he's my coach, didn't move with him..long back story..) All i want to do is chat to him on im but I still feel awkward and embarassed. I actually can't get him out of my head (to quote kylie minogue).

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  • Mraaronbill
    11 years ago

    I still think about all my ex's it's good to have bitter sweat memories . Once you love / have crush on someone they will have a piece of you and vice versa . I like it .

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  • Mormodes
    13 years ago

    If you still talk to him, stop for about a year and the symptoms should subside to a manageable level.

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  • Galaxy500
    13 years ago

    awww :) that summer was perfect but open ended....that's completely normal.

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  • aphrodite168
    13 years ago

    This is most deff normal. I still think about my first crush/bf. And that was when I was 14. I still wish to be near him.

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