Is it normal that i still love someone who left me

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hey there. i had a girlfriend and we really love each other. before. everything seems alright before. but i think, i took her for granted. i know that she loves me very much that she cannot leave me. i disregard her calls whenever I'm busy. and i sometimes i become mad for a little thing. she said that i've changed since we've met. and i agree with her. and then one day, the thing that i never wanted to happen, happened. she broke up with me and told me my mistakes. i know it, she's right. it was almost a week since she broke up with me, and i still wanted her. i wanted to reunite with her but she said she's afraid that my mistakes might happen again. how can i prove to her that i wont do the same thing over again just her to be mine again? and how can i prove to her that i really love her and i really need her? someone out there, please help me. ='(

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  • [Old Memory]
    13 years ago

    ok well here i go with my moto again if antone has seen my other coments my favorite fraise is "anything can happen" and it aplys here i think if u put all ur effort into it and remind her everyday that you love her and that if she takes you back nothing will ever happen than thats all you can do. that and hope and pray (im no religiouse at all that just seems to aply here u dont have to pray if ur not religiouse)

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    • [Old Memory]
      13 years ago

      anyone*

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  • UrbanArtLover
    13 years ago

    i know what you mean. its ok, a guy left me over nothing

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  • ThePudgyOne
    14 years ago

    Instead of worrying about when she'll come back to you, why not worry about yourself first? Sorry if this hurt but actually, I've been there and I admit that I WAS a jerk in the past with a girl I loved. I used to pursue her and wanted her back but it really emberassed me to have a stranger say "Fix yourself first because you are full of s*** and act like a b****" it really hurt but its true. You won't be able to get things right if you don't help yourself.

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  • mtnw
    14 years ago

    whether or not you get another chance is going to depend on how hurt she is.

    i don't know of any way to prove that you've changed, except maybe to write her a letter, apologize for your behavior and ask if she will agree to date you again. then maybe you can really date her, instead of treating her the way you used to. that letter won't prove anything, but your behavior during the dating will. why not try, you won't know unless you do.

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  • chai
    14 years ago

    Write her a letter, and tell her how you feel

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  • brokenfeelings
    14 years ago

    add comment please. thanks.

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  • SweetAdeline
    14 years ago

    The only reason you THINK you want this girl now is because she dumped you and people (especially men) always want what they think they can't have. If she had been right for you, you wouldn't have made all those "mistakes" when you were together and if you get back together, you will just make them again and there will be another break-up, etc., etc.

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