Is it normal that i still love my ex boyfriend after 3 years?

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So...there is this boy I loved enormously when i was in high school. He was the light of my eyes, I've never managed to love anybody elese that much, I even believe he was/is my soulmate. One day, he dumped me for almost no reason. It's been 3 years but I still think of him every day of my life. I mean, not in a creepy way. I just wish the best for him, I don't hate him or anything...I never did, even though i've suffered a lot after the break up. He looked for me a year ago and he tried to "repair" the things between us, but I was too afraid and proud to give him another chance. Though, I still love him and I think I will always will. Do you guys thins this is normal or have any advices for me? I would be grateful!

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  • Holzman_67
    9 years ago

    I believe in soulmates, but almost contrary to that I believe that people's ideas, values and philosophies evolve over time so it's possible you may meet your soulmate and think its forever and actually grow apart. That's individuality for you.

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    I think each of my wives was my soul mate, in their own way, at the time. I agree with Holzman_67 that it is possible to grow apart from that person, in time.
    I really think you need to push your feelings for this ex to a back burner and put your energy into finding your next soul mate. You cannot just give up and stop trying for a new love. Whatever you do, do not compare the ex to the new man, because after 3 years, nobody can be as wonderful as your (faulty) memories of your ex.
    There will be another for you, and I'll bet you he will be even better, if you will allow him into your life.

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    • gingerbread11
      9 years ago

      thank you so much

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Very normal, they don't call em first loves for nuthin', girl.

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  • -_-
    9 years ago

    Normal.

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