Is it normal that i still love her ?

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well I am a male I broke up with my girl from 6 weeks ago. to be honest I still love her, I feel like she is a piece of my heart and I can't stop thinking of her.
We have been together for about 10 months, first 6 months she was so good until she became close to a girl which is her best friend now, anything happens between us she run to her best friend and tell her everything asking her what to do with me, actually her best friend ruined the relationship between us, she always tell her to be so rough with me and make everything behind my back and lie in everything to me she destroyed my gf's personality until she became a totally new person with me. I don't know why her best friend do this! maybe she is jealous from her, am really wondering what does she want from us!

Above all of this I was strongly holding on my girl because I was deeply in love with her until one day I came up to her asking her to remove most of the boys on her Facebook account because they were really annoying me with their too much unacceptable comments and wall posts and they used to talk a lot with her.
Yes I am a jealous man who won't accept any other man to share even a smile with his only future wife and I made it a choice for her, me or her Facebook friends.
at first she didn't mind that, then I was surprised with her reaction when she asked her best friend what to do and her best friend told her don't obey him!!
I told her so you chose your friends then am sorry I am not the person whom you are looking for, then I broke up.

Now I don't know what to do, people are around me but I can't keep my eyes off of her I think of her in every step I take, I really miss her and I feel like I wanna hold her hands and take her between my arms.
So what do you think?
And Is it normal that I still Love her ?

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66% Normal
Based on 29 votes (19 yes)
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  • ThisIsNotAUsername
    12 years ago

    You should NEVER tell anyone to choose between the person they love and their friends.

    I dislike a few of my boyfriends female friends, not because i'm necessarily jealous, but because they just don't seem to treat him that well. I have to accept that he's friends with them and carry on. At the end of the day, i love him. If anything happens between him and them, i want to be the one to catch him when he falls, to help him get back on his feet, and to see the world through different eyes. Not them.

    You let someone you 'love' go because she had friends you disliked. You should've taken it on the chin and fought for what you loved, not let someone get between you.

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    • TheHOTTIEbarhar
      12 years ago

      Why can't my girlfriend be more like you? =(

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      • ThisIsNotAUsername
        12 years ago

        Because i'm one in 7 billion! :P

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      • LostinU
        12 years ago

        like who ?

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        • TheHOTTIEbarhar
          12 years ago

          like Thisisnotausername

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          • LostinU
            12 years ago

            why ?

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            • TheHOTTIEbarhar
              12 years ago

              Read her first comment above

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    • LostinU
      12 years ago

      I know I shouldn't let her choose between me or her friends. But I have reached a point that I couldn't take it anymore too many unacceptable comments and wall posts made me nervous !

      Other thing made me nervous that most of the boys on her account are just 'Facebook Friends!!!' whom just added her and talk to her and she have never seen them !! so now they aren't her friends

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      • ThisIsNotAUsername
        12 years ago

        There's no point blaming the guys for posting on her wall. If you were so quick to leave, perhaps it was more than just that willing you to move on? You said she changed, perhaps that's what really done it, the guys posts just made you realise what you've been trying to avoid?

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        • LostinU
          12 years ago

          so what do you think I should do now ?

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          • ThisIsNotAUsername
            12 years ago

            It's up to you, i can't decide for you i'm afraid!
            You just have to ask yourself is she worth getting back or not? Think about it.

            Whatever you decide, good luck to you. :)

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  • joybird
    12 years ago

    Behave!! My bf went on holiday - so I was bored and went out with this gorgeous guy. Anyway my bf came back so I dumped the gorgeouse one. I saw my bf watching me talking to the gorgeous one at a disco about a week later, so I left the disco. Bf followed me.

    How dare you watch me!

    Do you not trust me?

    Been married to bf over 20 years after going out for 6 years! But don't tell me who to talk to!!

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    It's completely normal... I am also a jealous person and I can't stand other guys interacting with my girlfriend, I've learned to accept some things that make me jealous and maybe you should to but when it comes to a friend coming in between you two than you should talk to her friend. Your gf has obviously become too dependent on her opinion. If you honestly feel the way you do talk to your gf and ask her if she wants to get back together with you. And have you put any thought into the fact that maybe your girlfriend has been giving a bad or misleading description of what you want to her friend? It could very well be that your girlfriend unintentionally made it sound worst or different then it actually is. Just tell her that when it comes to how you guys interact that no one else's opinion should waver that.

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    • LostinU
      12 years ago

      I told her many times that she will ruin our relationship but she didn't believe me, I told her friend please step away from us and she answered me "I am already away" but she is actually lying and enjoying what she is doing.

      Now I don't want to ask her to come back, If she wants to come back then she who will asks me, if she didn't came I will never ask her to. and for now I am trying to forget her but I can't !!

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  • Makayla22
    12 years ago

    DUDE, that's so sweet, you need to get your girl back and try as hard as you might to get your girl's best friend out of the way and tell your girl to listen to you becuz your trying to help her cuz u love her deeply :]

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