Is it normal that i still love her?

Ok so there is this girl t my school I have liked her since last year. Last year i just liked her that was it, so I asked her out, and she said she didnt want to date anybody. At first I didnt belive her I thought she was just letting me down easy but 2 people has asked her out since then and she said the same thing. I asked her why she didnt want to date anybody, she said there is no point in it. So now we are friends and talk often. I love her with all my heart and would do anything for her. I think about her all the time she never leaves my mind. This guy was being mean to her and i told her if he says anything or touches you let me know and she smiled and said ok thanks. I would woop anybodys ass for her. I she is the most important thing in the world to me. I know she doesnt feel the same way, but i still love her. She is the one for me but she doesnt feel the same way and I have cryed about this at night for hours. I just cant get over her so is it normal i still love her?

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Based on 44 votes (41 yes)
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Comments ( 13 )
  • Thatguy777

    Yes, I would say it is normal. Whatever you do, don't tell her this. It will ruin your friendship, trust me. Recently I told this girl that I'm in love with that I really liked her, and it just destroyed our friendship. Now I can't even talk to her. It's the worst feeling in the world because I still love her. Just continue to be her friend, and treat her like an angel. If you do this maybe she'll fall in love with you to, and then she won't think dating is pointless.

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  • plum6

    completely normal ofcourse, but honestly I think that if she would meet someone she is really into she would probably change her mind about the whole dating thing. On the one hand this person could very well be you, it is not that uncommon for a friendship to turn into a relationship over time. On th eother hand it seems obvious that if she would actually be interested in a relationship with you this would be clear from the start. Still it doesn't seem like a waste of time and effort if you would keep showing interest in her. I would advise you to just try to not let it become your main focus and try to date other girls as well.

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    • Navysealdude416

      I tried and i broke up with the other girl in like 2 days cuz i couldnt stope thinking about the girl i love

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  • Terence_the_viking

    Yes it's normal seeing her doesn't help. It seems to be just when you think you are over her you see her again then all those feelings keep coming back.

    Get someone to slap you in the face everytime you look at her.

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    • Navysealdude416

      Dude i dont wanna stop loving her

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      • Terence_the_viking

        Then ignore my above comment.

        Goodbye and goodluck.

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  • Zeldamaniac2

    Same wit me

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  • Ixu

    I think that you should perhaps make a move but subtly, if there's no romantic response then the friendship may continue as normal. Telling her that you're inlove with her or buying flowers or something like that is obviously too blunt but be suggestive. As a woman I can't fully believe that she doesn't want any romance in her life :)

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  • Justsomejerk

    You should definitely start punching cunts at random to impress her. Girls love an ass-whoopin.

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    • Navysealdude416

      Lol no

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  • Thatguy777

    Seriously, you should be happy that you're friends with her. I regret nothing more than telling my friend I liked her, because like I said, it ruined our friendship. I'd do anything to take that all back so we could just be friends again. Unless you lose her as your friend, you don't have any right to cry, because you're in a way better position than me. I know it sucks. You love her and you want her to know that. It's completely normal, trust me. But to tell her that might just freak her out. I'm telling you it is not worth the risk. If you value your friendship at all, you will leave it at that and you won't let this bother you anymore.

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  • seekingcleanfriendship

    Don't cry over it . She is your friend , so keep her as your friend. Don't let yourself be swept away. She is smart and wants to have a life before a relationship, so just be there for her , keep extra feelings to yourself for now and just be her friend and let your relationship grow. Don't freak out you haven't lost her because she's not in that state of being yet and true relationships take years to grow. Be her friend, don't panic or over do it and when she reaches the point she wants someone you'll still be there.

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  • Ghost121

    Try to move on man, I know it's easier said than done but I was in the exact same position not too long ago; crying and all. I doubt that this get anywhere with her and i'm just sharing this from experience, you'll just keep giving love where it is not wanted, just leading up to broken hearts and frustration. That is, until you decide to peruse someone who is actually willing to love you back. I'm sure you know all of this already though. But honestly, distance apart is the only thing I could really tell you to do.

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