Is it normal that i still like the guy that hurt me?

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So this guy liked me and I liked him he toke my first kiss in a very romantic way, I was mad and to clam me down he kissed me. We were together for about 6 months till I found out that he had been with other girls for about a month, and broke up. We spent the whole summer apart and saw each other recently at my friends birthday party, he pulled me aside and apologized for everything and said that he didn't want a serious relationship at the time we were together and hadn't known how to tell me. He tried to kiss me but I refused he asked me what was wrong and if I still liked him, I said no and walked away. All my friends keep asking if I am really over him I've told them all yes that I really am over him but the truth is that I am not.....is this normal?????

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    12 years ago

    You'll hurt for a little while but I feel you made the right choice in turning him away.

    You deserve someone who has the balls to make a commitment .... not a boy who seems to expect you to fall back into his arms just because he claims he's serious this time.

    and it's not unusual to not be over him yet
    but remember, not being over him doesn't really mean you still "like" him... it just means you were hurt badly and need to heal.

    and that if a man isn't building your self-respect or self-worth he's not worth holding on to

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    • LocaChicka15
      12 years ago

      Thanks so much for the advice!!!

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  • flutterhigh
    12 years ago

    He clammed you down? That's not romantic, that's gross.

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    • LocaChicka15
      12 years ago

      Haha sorry I mean calmed

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  • dom180
    12 years ago

    You're the one who is best placed to make a desision about whether he is for real or not. If you genuinely think he is for real, give him one more chance, and if he blows it then ditch him for good. If you think he's going to cheat again, don't even bother with him.

    As I say, you are the only one who can guess at whether he is lying to you or not.

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    • LocaChicka15
      12 years ago

      Thanks so much for the advice!!!

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