Is it normal that i still like my ex?

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About 8 months ago i started this relationship with a really nice guy and i really liked him. we werent officialy going out but he was really overprotective and we did things that people in a proper relationship do. Then about 2 months ago he broke it off with me after ignoring me for 3 weeks before hand. Since then a friend who i have known for a long time was hepling me and comforting me and about a week ago he asked me to be his girlfriend. i said yes because this guy is everything im looking for and he is amazing! but im just not sure if im completely over the other guy. i still kinda talk to him. he seems to still be pretty over protective about me wanting to know all about my new relationship and im just not sure if its normal not to be completely over someone while starting a new relationship?
also if anyone has advice please comment it! i really need some help!

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  • shakalaka
    11 years ago

    I took a year of my life to get over my ex. It was very difficult. I dumped my new boyfriend because I couldn't forget my ex and I regret it. I goggle on the internet to find ways to mend my heart. I cut off all contacts with him. I deleted his number from my phone even though I could memorize it. I block him on facebook and deleted all of his pictures. Then, I could really get over him.

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  • Brittany_Mullis32
    11 years ago

    Yes, what my advice is for you is.
    1. Write your x's name on a rock and throw it out.
    2. block him on facebook, instagram, twiiter, ect.
    3. delete his number.

    It most deffinitly will take a couple if months but you have to focus on your new guy. You might have the wanting to look at his facebook, twiiter, instagram ect. but you have to tell your self No! just do that and you will get over him. Hope i helped :)

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  • eatableyou
    11 years ago

    It is normal, I always have feelings for my ex but to live happier you should let go and enjoy your time with your new boy friend , there is a reason for him to be your ex. He'll not change unless he really wants to, make him regret it. Be happy with the new one

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  • stone23
    11 years ago

    By all means make yourself his doormat if it be your will. Keep in touch with him until he decides he's bored again. It will happen. He will sccare the other dude away and you'll be squished up all one dimensional sponge bob like and rolled out on the floor and you will ask yourself, what the fuck is going on? What has become of me? and, had you ears to hear, passersby, as they tap cigarette ash onto you and wipe their shoes off on you, answer that, 'you're a motherfuking doormat for crying out loud. You're a thing desinged to be stepped on. Shut the fuck up and be what you are. Hey, fucking doormats don't talk. ' You will really freak the fuck out of people man. Doormats aren't supposed to speak but you will. Does this sound like a destiny you are willing to embrace? Consult Oprah's list and read the latest pop psych trash on co-dependency. Or just bend over and let that attractive new guy have at ya. Choice is yours. I'd go for Oprah myself but that's just me/ I'm wired. I'm wired weird that way.

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