Is it normal that i still have feelings for this "person"

a while back i dated this guy , it wasent for a long time at all but yeah it was like a 2 week thing.but we had been talking for a LONG time before that. even while he dated other girls. we were good friends. i liked him since the FIRST day i met him. well when i dated him we were all good then we broke up. but still talked. & still messed around.. well in the summer we never actually got to the point of..having sex. but that doesn't mean there wasn't a time where we almost DID. noow he goes out with my "bestfriend" i still SORT of like him. i don't know wether its me just holding onto it bc i thinking "what if" of if maybe i still feel there's something there. or maybe there is something there & i don't realize it ? i see him at school everyday. when we hang out alone i still get that feeling i did when we first met..(excitement, rush, happiness, & wonder) buit its hard to feel this way knowing he dates my bestfriend now i don't know what to think about this.. i know its normal but whats your opinion on this ? ive had other boyfriends since then . & i just i want your HONEST opinion.

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74% Normal
Based on 23 votes (17 yes)
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  • Wilkommen

    It's normal, but not healthy. You are only going to cause yourself more heartbreak if you don't move on. What happens when you hang out and you have to see him and your friend canoodling? Also, if you are too preoccupied with this dead end then you might miss new opportunities.

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