Is it normal that i still fantasize about having sex with my ex?

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A month ago I broke up with my boyfriend due to a bunch of reasons, the gist being we've been on-off for almost two years, he has alot of demons he needs to face,and I thought it was best that I be away from him while he does so, plus we've been fighting recently. Despite these facts I still have sexual dreams and fantasize ALOT about him and me having sex (yes we did have sex if ur asking..). I do still really love him but i'm trying to be mature and not want to give into my strong urges so thats my story...

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  • Chillpill
    12 years ago

    Yes, normal. I went through a similar thing once. I had an amazing connection with a guy, but a long-term relationship wouldn't have worked for various reasons. Long after I got over the break-up emotionally, I still got sex flashbacks. Thinking of sex meant thinking of him. I guess you could say the sex was the best part of our relationship. And there was a bit of a void in terms of sex afterwards. Not sure what you could do. Watch some porn maybe, focus on your fetishes (if you have any) I think it's that link (Sex = your ex) that needs to be broken.

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