Is it normal that i start to love him ?

first of all i am from italy so sorry for my english if is bad...
i am living in a mix house from 8 month , and i met guy from france in this apartment i know him from 7 month and we start to like each other from 2 month but both of us we didnt say nothing , and before 3 weeks we went to a party and we get drunk and then we slept together, in the morning me and him we didnt felt bad about what we did , and we start to go out aloot and again we slept together maybe 4 times both of us we want , and now all who is living in the house they know that ther is somthing betwen me and him, but i am feeling bad because i start to like him aloot and i start to be jelouse when talk with other girl :( and yesterday at night while we was sleeping together i asked him why we are doing that and we are still not in a date , he answered me its normal because we are adult :( ,, but i am sure that he is liking me too but i dont know why he is not asking me to be his gf ,but the proplem that each day i am liking him more , what can i do ?? i want to be his gf to feel okay when i make somthing with him, i dont want to use me only or think i am doing that because i am enjoying , what can i do ?? its okay to speak to him me first ??or just stoped to do anything with him?? or wait him to say ?

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  • hahaha...betterlearnfromakid!

    yes its normal, usually people fall in love with people after they get to know each other. at first there was this guy that got on my nerves because he was being smart. then we talked more and more, and now i love him..... so i think its completely normal

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  • Captain_Kegstand

    Sounds like he might be using you. Ask him what he wants out of your relationship and see if his goals are the same. So you can't be used in the future!

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    • cathy.123

      i asked him he told me i liked you but the proplem that i am travelling soon after 1 month so dont think aloot about this and just enjoy ou time together :( i didnt know what i reply to him , i told him i am not for having fun , he reply that i a understand him wrong and he know i am not like this and he liked me and then he told me lets talk face to face better , and we met today he is like nothing happened and he didnt talk nothing :(

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      • Captain_Kegstand

        He pretended like nothing happened? I don't see how him avoiding the subject is going to help your situation any. Who is going travelling, you or him? Will you guys be seperated long enough to affect a relationship or is he just using it as an excuse? (Sorry for all the questions, i'm just curious)

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  • Isitnormal?:-)

    hmmm he might be using you be careful

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    • cathy.123

      i know :( but i start t love him and i get used alot to him now

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