Is it normal that i sometimes prefer to hang with selfish people?

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Sometimes I'd rather hang with someone who's selfish and kind of a dick than someone who's all nice and positive all the time. I'm not talking like a total fucking assh*le, but the whole "positive attitude" thing seems so forced and fake sometimes and I get the feeling like they're just being nice because they either don't have real confidence in themselves or they want something from me. Plus, it's a lot harder to be honest with a nice person if they're doing something that annoys me because they're being so nice so I don't want to hurt their feelings. Whereas with a dick I can just be like, "Dude, cut that the f*ck out man!" or "You suck at this! Haha!!!" with no remorse. Nice people take that shit way too seriously. You know what I mean? Maybe it's because I'm selfish and kind of a dick too, I don't know, but that sort of relationship is much more fun and real to me. Is that normal?

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  • Anime7
    12 years ago

    Sounds like you want to hang out with people who are mean because they are more real than someone who is nice. Furthermore, it sounds like you believe humans, by nature, aren't nice, which I agree with. I think you're normal.

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  • [Old Memory]
    7 years ago

    I thought I was the only one. You're not alone, OP.

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  • CarsGirlsGunsMoneyMade
    12 years ago

    Er... Straight shooter?

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  • Crudhouse
    12 years ago

    I hate dicks in any sense of the word

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  • beastie
    12 years ago

    At least you get the feeling they are being real with you, warts and all.
    That's gotta count for something.

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  • spoiledamericanasshole
    12 years ago

    I understand where you're coming from, but you're generalizing quite a bit. I know nice people who are nice because that's just who they are and not because they are necessarily under-confident or because they want something from me. But you don't necessarily have to be a "nice" person to be likable; nice people and good people are not always the same thing. It sounds like your dick friends who you can be a dick to are probably good people too, they just share your sense of humor.

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