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Im a happily married man who loves his wife and finds her very attractive. but for as long as i can remember i have fantasized about being with a man,as i get older i think about it more and more,what should i do?
I think it is more than normal to fantasize about sex with another man because of the fact it is something that is unknown and unexperienced by you this far, and also that it is such a dark, and forbidden thing being a heterosexual and enjoying sex with your wife as you do, but maybe wanting to try something youve always been curious to try since childhood most likely.
Even if you live out your fantasy and for example you have the chance and suck another guy's cock, that doesn't mean you are gay, even if you enjoy it. Gay men are attracted to and desire other men. Period. If you only desire the sexual act , you are at the most, bisexual.
most psychologists think of sexuality as a spectrum.... you can be on the straight side of it, with some tendencies. it's quite normal to have feelings of curiosity. as far as what you should do, that's up to you and your wife. whatever it is, be safe and use protection!
I'm a married man and I have been fantasising about sex with another man for many years now. I often watch gay and bisexual porn when I masterbate. I still love sex with my wife and women still turn me on
I agree you need to try but I wouldn't tell you wife just yet. She could,freak out. I would try to meet up with a guy, preferably if you can get out of town or check Craigslist . They have m2m sections. Chose a guy who is visiting, maybe in a similar situation. Be safe of course. I met up with a guy recently who is 49 and just started thinking of guys because his wife won't have sex anymore and he feels like its not cheating with a guy. Being with a guy is raw, wild, different. Deepening on what you do, it can also be the best orgasm of your life.
do you have kids???
tell your wife about it then tell her to have a sex change, if she doesn't say yes leave it don't keep bugging her,then you still have a wife but in a man's body she can still give birth so don't worry if you still want kids and she is a man
One time I astral projected into a female fragment of myself and got screwed by some astral dude. I was like "what the fuck" when I woke up.
Not normal.... your either bi or gay.You didn't say anything about loving sex with your wife.Its possible that if the chance of it happening occur you could learn more then you should.I feel like if a man Dick gets hard because of another man your Gay! You didn't even say u aleast wanted to have a threesome with your wife and a man ...thats still nasty but at least you would have lead us believe it was just a fantasy.
I am 15 and I like going out with girls but I always fantasize about having sex with another guy soo yea I suppose it is normal, your just curious and I think at some point eveyone gets a little curious :)
Talk to your wife about it. I'm not trying to be trolly, I promise. But if you want to keep in the marriage maybe try a strap on? lol Or get her to use a dildo? It might do it for you
I find it normal. I'm only a teen and a girl but I'm certain I'm mostly straight yet have fantasized about being with another girl before.
You should talk to your wife about it; and if she approves maybe experiment a little to see if you like it, or at least get it out of your system haha because if you never try you'll probably always be left wondering :P
I have felt the same for a year or so. I am happily married too, suggest you try it out with a bloke, I did and found a new hobby. Still have a great sex life with my wife, but getting to suck cock. Don't think of myself gay or bi, but I do love sucking a guy off. Go try it you may like it.
Don't just go out and do some random dude. I think you should talk to wife. If she really loves you, she should understand. Maybe you could talk to your wife about having a threesome with a guy instead of girl and see if you like it.
Maybe you're bisexual, try going to a gay bar and see how it pans out for you.