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I'm a woman and I have sex with my boyfriend twice a day almost. Each time is very easy cause I want it but sometimes I'm just not attracted to him or I just don't want him, even though most of the times I do. Is it normal as a woman? Cause he always feels like having sex with me and I feel guilty when I'm not in the mood
sex is good and all and important in a relationship, but definitely not literally all the time. you want it to still feel special and intense no matter how many times you have done it before. sometimes just talking, laughing, holding hands, showing caring and affection in other ways, or doing things together and being there for each other can be every bit as memorable and fulfilling. I really believe that relationships are more about the memories you create and not how many times you had sex. let him know how you feel and if he's a decent guy he will understand and love you all the more for being honest. best of luck to you
you are at this stage only his girl friend. what will happen if you start with the im not in the mood attitude with him before you get the wedding ring? some women will move in on the territory when he drops the hint he has a girlfriend that occasion says no to sex. If your are ready for it well fucki it . tell him you already had sex today and see how far that gets you . BTW , what makes you think hes only fucking you to start with? I got most of my action from married women at work. Im sure you have herd your friends say their husbands come home from work too tired for sex right? well thats because they are well spent at work. and
now you know.
General fact of life: Most men want as much sex as they can manage. When they're young, this can be several times a day.
Second fact: Women's interest in sex varies, and can be affected by a huge range of factors. Intelligent, mature men understand this.
You could try to understand what it is that makes you less interested at some times, and explain this to him. Many women experience fairly regular fluctuations in their interest in sex as their hormones change during their monthly cycle, but all kinds of things going on in your life can have an impact.
Unless you live in a very fucked up part of the world, no man has the right to have sex with his wife whenever he feels like it. Just because you're his wife, this does not mean he can expect you to be in the mood all the time. That makes no more sense than you expecting him to be happy or sad whenever you ask him to be so.