Is it normal that i slept with the friend of a guy that...

likes me? When I slept with the friend of a guy that likes me, he got hysterical! He was like you slut this and that..but I told him that I did not owe him anything since we were just friends. So I'm wondering now, can guys not take rejection? or can they just not handle a female player? I mean I really do think like a guy when it comes to no strings attached sex..

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  • People calling her a slut should leave her alone. I'm not condoning cheating but we don't know the circumstances that well, and technically she wasn't cheating. If you knew the guy liked you when you slept with his friend, that wasn't a nice or smart thing to do. Do you love/have real feelings for the guy's friend? I hope you do, otherwise you may have ruined two friendships ( yours with your friend, and your friend's with the guy you slept with ) for just sex. Think how you would feel if it was the other way around. You might wanna talk to your friend and clear the air.

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  • dirtymirror

    If you're sleeping with someone, even if it's casual, out of respect for them you should try to stay away from their friends. It creates an awkward or resentful situation between friends.

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  • There is no such thing as a female "player".

    These people are called "whores".

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  • Brad07305

    That's not cool. You just wanted to get off on breaking someone's heart and playing with their head. The next time life treats you unfairly, remember this. But you're the type who is only capable of caring about herself. What a troubled life you're in for.

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  • sjshp

    I think he liked you! haha. But yeah, turn the tables: how would you feel?
    Look at how the relationship between you guys was.

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    • Alison89

      Yes, "liked," not "likes."

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  • MissClaire

    Some men/boys (whatever) feel that it is not a females role to 'play' like that - HOWEVER - I think its perfectly fine and fair. He is just jelouse and threatened. All the power to you - The whole word 'slut' makes me laugh, it only means something nasty if you let it.

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  • love_lovelove__

    Slightly confused on how people are calling you a slut, whore etc.. I'm kind of going through the same, except from I didn't know the boy liked me. He still hasn't forgave me yet because he is finding it difficult to get over. I understand why he is mad if you knew he liked you but what's done is done. Try an make him forgive you, it may take awhile..

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  • Equus

    If the guy likes you he doesn't want you to fuck his friends; this seems like a no brainer and believe me, women feel the same way. If you are a player and just want to fuck a lot of guys you need to announce that up front and not lead the guys on. I spent a lot of my life as a male player and I always told the ladies up front that I was interested in fucking them but I did not want a relationship.

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  • You are a dirty dirty slut and your vagina is a cum dumpster.

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  • stupid_username

    if u wanted to sleep with sombody sleep with the guy who likes u not his friend. that is the most f*cked up thing ive heard of ...... but its u. ure decisions. thats terrible. very slutty

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    • Alison89

      I don't think she should sleep with the guy who likes her. She should sleep with the guy she likes (if she's going to sleep with anyone at all).

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  • trolog

    I think if the role was reversed you'd be excatly the same as him, it's being insensitive which probs hurt him the most. Calling yourself a female player shows you excatly what kinda person you are, just as disgusting as the guys who use women, promise them the world use them for sex and leave them. I hope the guy your humping dumps you like a sack of shit.

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  • kromies

    one word ... SLUT !

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  • Enizzle

    You dump shitsacks? Thats what the garbage is for, man. I walk on those sidewalks.

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  • Gelmurag

    Depends on how close the friendship is/was, and how long its gone on. Guys usually fall first, and harder than girls do. If it is one of those things that he's your best friend, and its been like that for years, chances are he's beyond in love with you, and took this as a sign of cheating. The best thing a girl can understand, is to tell the guy when they first meet "Look dude, I want a friend, and thats it." Failure to set terms at the start leads to nasty at the end. I like to call it "Brother syndrome." You know, "I like you like a brother, I could never like you as more." Thats a classical example of BS.

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  • KyleRoccz

    It seems like you're really into making generalizations. Get over yourself.

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  • stupid_username

    or at least thats wht some retard would say

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  • stupid_username

    it might bring you 2 closer, but it might break u apart

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  • JuliusE

    Haha your stupid.

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    • stupid_username

      stupid......username

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  • Idodolphins

    Well think about it how would u feel u like a guy and he goes having sex with one of your friend just give him wat he wants he is hurt do be like that

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