Is it normal that i slept with a guy 30 years older than me?

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Hi everyone.

I'm not sure how I feel about this. Basically when I was 17 I was on a night out with a choir and we all got totally drunk. A guy in the choir and I ended up leaving the group, fooling around, getting really intimate, basically having sex although he was a bit pissed to really go through with it. The thing is, I was 17 and he was mid 40's, went to school with my mum and has kids almost my age.

What do you think?

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  • Angel_in_a_Glass_Dress
    11 years ago

    it depends on where you are really.

    around here "17 years old" means "below the drinking age" so if the authorities got involved the adults in question would be in serious trouble for, not just supplying the booze, but for taking advantage of the youngsters.

    If this is very recent, i'd recommend being cautious about spending time with that choir again, not if you cannot trust them.

    and if it's recent or in your past, you may also want to talk to a counselor.

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  • Imsupernormal
    11 years ago

    Whatever floats your boat.

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  • quentari
    11 years ago

    is that legal in your country?

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    • quentincrisp
      11 years ago

      Yeah it's legal (16 = age of consent here), although I suppose it's not exactly normal.

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  • Alysin
    11 years ago

    If this was
    "IIN that I slept with a girl 30 years younger than me?"
    the normal rating would be so low..

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  • Gelmurag
    11 years ago

    Copied from another post of mine.

    But then why are girls attracted to older men, and older men attracted to younger girls? Generally speaking, a younger girl is more resilient physically than an older woman. From a biological perspective, this means that at the onset of puberty, she can start having children, and her chances of survival are increased because of her youth. The opposing side to that is why on earth a younger girl would prefer to mate with an older male. Mainly strength. An older male will have established hunting trails, and knowledge how to defend himself and his "family." A younger male will have a more difficult time protecting/bringing food home simply because he isn't as experienced. Obviously back in those days life spans were quite short. But we haven't really evolved out of that yet. It was quite common for 12 year old girls to mate with 25-30 year old males. More chances to get her pregnant, more ability to provide, more potential offspring.

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    • zelskid
      11 years ago

      Money power experience

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