Is it normal that i sleep with another guy when i m still somebody's ?

In my personal opinion if you love your husband like you say you do despite the fact you settled down so young you would have not have done what you have. It sickens me that people go off cheating all the time. Surely if you love the one your with you would have absolute no reason to go sleep with someone else because you have all you want and need in your partner. This sucks. Not been horrible but I hope your husband has been faithful to you all these years and finds out about your dirty little secret that by the way will eat away at you and I hope he kicks your dirty little arse to the curb. There's no point doing something you know is wrong and know what the consequences of your actions could bring and then say " I'm sorry. It didn't mean anything". Well obviously it did because I wouldn't open my legs for someone without having a mutual attraction there. The grass ain't greener on the other side you know like people like you assume it is. You and everyone else like you make me sick. I hope you get all you deserve. What foes around comes around. Hope you can live with yourself.

Engaged at 14 and married at 19. That's like growing up in prison!

You were way too young, mtnw is right about that, but your husband won't take your kid away from you it's hard for a man to get sole custody and exclude the mother unless you are strung out on drugs or abusive or something like that so don't let anyone scare you with that bleeping nonsense.

The question is: What do you want? You only get one life. It's not about wanting your teens back it's about what you want to happen in your life.

Are you unsatisfied in your marriage or just looking to satisfy your curiosity? If you are unsatisfied in your marriage talk with your husband and see if you two can solve the dissatisfaction, but marriage contrary to your vows is most often till divorce does you part. If the cause of the dissatisfaction is not solved then you could have a trial separation and see how that works out, you are already living apart. Then you can try dating. Does your boyfriend know that you are married? Most times a guy who is sleeping with you knowing you are married likes the fact that you are not free to demand a relationship from him so don't pin your hopes on that guy. My problem with this situation is that you are not being honest with yourself or with your husband. I don't get it don't you and your husband talk about stuff or do you two just have a superficial marriage?

you got engaged at 14??? well, there's your problem. you somehow were allowed to make an adult decision with a child's mind.

now you find yourself living with a choice that a kid made.

the thing is, you can't unring a bell. what is done is done. no wonder you are feeling guilty. i would suppose you have some thinking to do, whether you will stop cheating and work on your marriage, or split up a family so you can have your teens back.

so at the age of 28, it's time for you to decide what to do. i would urge you to stop your sexual affair with this other guy, at least until you decide what you want to do. if you keep the affair going, it's only a matter of time as to when you get caught. then other people are involved and may end up making your decision for you. (such as your husband divorcing you and taking your daughter from you). you don't mention anything about your lover, but you may be nothing more than free sex to him.

if you feel bad and guilty, why don't you trust your own moral compass? i think you already know what you need to do. good luck

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This is normal...you missed the regular dating and partying stages of your life that everyone else gets to experience...maybe you and your husband should separate for a little while until you figure out what you want.

Hmmm, how would ur husband feel about it? Or better yet how would u feel when ur husband is doing the same thing. Ask your husband if he would be down to have like a week of sex with random people if he says yeah then both of u are in the green.

Unfortunately now a-days sleeping with a man who is not your husband is very common.

What a whore omg I feel sorry for your husband

slut.

^ agreed. Whore.

Only if you're a total prostitute.

Your husband will feel destroyed if he knew this, lady!! You cheated him in the time he loves you.... So Baaaad !