Is it normal that i sent a fake facebook message to his friend?

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So I've been dating this guy for about 8 months.. we aren't exclusive but I found out that he lied to me one weekend. He told me he was going to visit a "college buddy" and would see me when he got back. When I didn't hear from him the entire weekend I became curious and did a little investigating.

Turns out he was going to see some other woman and he stayed with her the entire weekend. I checked her facebook and her cover photo was a picture of her and him so I got worried and was so confused then angry because he lied to me.

No we aren't exclusive so yes he can do what he wants but why lie to me... he told me that while he is seeing me he wasn't seeing anyone else.

I have a fake facebook account that looks totally legit. I've had it for years and use it when I need. Well I messaged that woman and said I randomly came to her page and saw someone I knew on her cover photo.. We got to talking about him and I told her that he gave me Herpes...

I noticed she took down the picture of the two of them and I know they had plans to meet up this coming weekend.. I know those plans have been canceled because he and I now have plans.....Guess she didn't want herpes. haha

Is that normal haha?

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  • pandabear1209
    12 years ago

    That's actually pretty funny lol

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    Amazing

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  • ygrowup
    12 years ago

    Wrong and self serving, but normal

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  • Dalilbumb
    11 years ago

    I feel like every part of your story is just straight up wrong. You've had and used a totally legit fake Facebook for years? What the fuck? And now your spreading this rumor about this guy that you supposedly have been dating for 8 months, claiming that he has herpes? Thats a rumor that could get completely spread around to a lot of people that know this guy, without any of them ever trying to confront him or ask him about it. Instead, your just staining his reputation with his friends, and friends of his friends, and maybe even friends he has yet to even make.

    Do you even know for a fact he was going to hook up with this girl? I am a college guy and have a couple closer than normal friends that are girls. It is very possible that someone who didn't know these girls, but knew me, could deduce that I was hooking up with these girls, when thats the last thing on my mind.

    Im sorry for writing this long negative post. I don't know what spurred it or why, but when I read your post it just absolutely sickened me. I know plenty of people who do things like you and when it comes down to it, any form of outward negativity (criticism, deception, hate, you name it) comes from deep within; inner personality flaws, subconscious or conscious insecurities.

    What is a relationship? Trust. Think about anyone you truly love and it should become apparent. As you notice moving from people like your mother to best friends and then close friends and acquaintances, the level of compassion you have for said person, is proportional to how much you are willing to blindly trust, no questions asked, with yourself and everything about you in all ways.

    if you want an intimate relationship, and not just a high school "publicity" relationship, you need to be clear on how to achieve it. I don't know you or your personality, and I don't mean to take any personal hits whatsoever, but it sounds like you need to sit down for a very long time and think about life.

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  • Alison89
    12 years ago

    You aren't exclusive, but you're upset he saw another woman?

    You can say you did what you did because he lied to you, but what you did was make sure he didn't see this other woman again, and without letting him know you know he lied.

    I don't condone the lying, but at the same time, if I was seeing someone where it wasn't an exclusive relationship, I wouldn't want him to tell me about the other women, and I would expect him to lie, at least a little when he's seeing someone instead of me.

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