Is it normal that i secretly want to get pregnant?

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I have a good paying job and Im 25 years old. I have an education and my own apartment. I've been seeing this guy for about 10 months now and we have unprotected sex. It's not like Im lieing to him about anything and we both kinda just have sex without condoms but he always pulls out and even once he asked me if he could finish inside me and I said no but secretly I wanted him to.

I really like this guy, his personality and his looks are my definition of perfection. I would really love for him to get me pregnant because I want to be a single mother. It's not like I'm trying to trap him in or go after his money.. in fact he and I make the same amount of money.

I've just always been more of an introvert and enjoy my time alone but sometimes want someone around. A baby around would be amazing. I don't even wanna be with this guy.

Point is.. do any other girls feel this way and is this wrong of me? The only thing I can think of that may make this situation wrong here is that I never told him that if I ever got pregnant that I wouldnt' get an abortion. He may think I will but he never asked me and I never told.

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  • assdfghjkl
    12 years ago

    It's kind of understandable. It's a little wrong and it's a lot selfish - you know, unless he doesn't care about a commitment to you which I am assuming he does.

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  • lc1988
    12 years ago

    What are you going to do when you want to be alone but you have the baby?

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  • pandabear1209
    12 years ago

    Why not just go to a sperm bank and get yourself pregnant? It would be wrong to have a baby and not tell the father (unless he's abusive or something). If your able to support and care for a child then I say go for it, nothing wrong being a single parent. But seriously don't hve this dude knock you up, just get yourself pregnant. That's my opinion.

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