Is it normal that i secretly hate my bestfriend?

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My guybestfriend (now my boyfriend) my girl bestfriend and I have been friends for years but recently my guybestfriend and I started dating. I'm starting to think my girl bestfriend likes him. They were friends for a long time before I came in the picture. They walk together a lot. One day just to se what he would do I walked a different way in school he didn't say anything and just kept walking with her. She's always touching him and sometimes I think he chooses her over me. I don't like her at all anymore but she thinks I still do. Is it normal that I secretly hate my bestfriend?

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  • Thatguy777
    11 years ago

    Talk to both of the about this. I know how you're feeling though. I like my best friend who's a girl, and she's also friends with another one of my good friends. Anyway, she started drifting away from me and started talking to him more, and it hurts like hell. I've actually gotten into it with him a couple times over this.

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  • Mando
    11 years ago

    Just talk to her about your feelings. Bring it into the light of day and make the boundaries of friendship clear.

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  • normalisboringbr0
    11 years ago

    yes and no. it makes sense that you're feeling a little jealous, but you need to remember that you are all best friends. whether you're with them or not, they will still talk and hang out because they're still close. trust you boyfriend and your best friend. they won't want to do anything that will upset you. :) worst case scenario, talk to them about it.

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