Is it normal that i secretly hate my best friend?

Damn those girls. I agree!!

If no one likes her at school, that's probably why no one else is around u.. try to make some new, i mean REAL friends ...

THIS HAPPENED TO ME TOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! i hate my best friend. i wish i could end our friendship but i always stuck with her! >:(

Yuck. You sound very mousy by putting up with this. Plus, remember that people judge you based on your friends. Find friends that you won't hate.

Your not the the one with the problem at all hun. I'm 31 years old and I know what you are going though. It's tuff to just give someone up because of what you both have been through and what all she is. You want everything that she has but you try to talk to her but she makes you feel like shit and less worthy. Don't drop her, just stop talking to her and make another friend that seems way more important then she ever was. make your new friend the most important person to you. Hell you might even forget about that horribal best friend you have and SHE will be crying for your for attetion. That is all they want anyways.

i think you just literally stole my life ahaha. same thing happened to me every detail

Shit! Well seriously, just drop her ass.
She doesn't seem like a very lovely person. Will your high school be big?

Don't be mousy. Learn to stand alone.

I've known my best friend since 1st year of middle school and the first 2 years we were fine but everything started changing the 3rd year.. I was the type of girl that always liked to help her friend and do anything for her but... now i noticed that she wasnt even there for me and just secretly jealous and using me.. First she got peer presure from her Older Friends which were Seniors back then and she started smoking.. i was really sad and tried to help her stop them and after an year she stopped them because of special treatment and staff.. she whould always say to me and she was always thankful for helping her and stuff...but when i though that we were going to be ok she changed..because she got boyfriend (her chilhood friend) and she was spending her time with him and stuff... then i discovered that she talking behind my back..with our other 2 bffs...but in front of me she would like say bad things about them so i can hate them and saparate. Because of this shit we broke up and didnt talk all summer.. and then when we got back to school it was really akward but somehow MY BFF found a way to make everything okay as always and be the good one -.- . Idk why but this year we would like fight everyday because she was really jealous of me...and that i was hanging sometimes with other friend that i met. She was really really saying bad things about my other friend and i got mad bc the other girl was even better than her and she was fun girl that understood me exacly and she was valuable person for me... She even talked bad thing for this girl behind my back and everything was mess... I dont know i just got mad and i ignored her calls,msm and all and she said she was extremelly sorry and that she couldnt loose me bc she had only me and other her friends were fake... I accpeted her.. but i dont truest her at all now.. either my mother.. She is really fucked up person...she is in her world and whenever i talk she thinks about other stuff and in the end im like an insane person talking to myself ... and when im happy or smth good happens to me i can see that she isnt that happy..bc inside she has miserable life and shes jealous..and then she just makes up other topic and talks about her and the things she has like her new phone,dogs or clothes and stuff...I told her that i liked a cute boy in our class and in the other moment she told me tha she loved him and liked him even though she had broked with her ex few days ago.... She even told me that she valued me very much so she got me presen..it was necklase and when i openened it was all old chip old dirty necklase in the true way .. it seemed that it was from the garbage or smth and my mom got really mad and she tossed it in the trash. I just cant trust my bff anymore..she's now a normal person for me .. and she doesnt even know that i secretly despise her... im not kind of person to hate..even im the opossite person that can hurt anyone for the name of god.. but she literraly broke my heart and S SHE A TRUE FRIEND OR ?? PLSS REPLY IF U CAN Thanks :)))

Seriously, you obviously know this is normal. Anyone would hate their best friend with that kind of attitude. So did you just post that story to rant and bring out your anger towards her? Because it doesn't look like you're even seeking advice or something.

i dont know but you sound like the one with the problem to me what does moles have to do with anything ... it seems to me like your so jealous of her that your coming up with any and every excuse you can muster just to feel validated in not liking her, do you guys both a favor and move on

I totally feel you. Probably just try to hang out with her lesser now and go look for new friends to hang out with!

What a friend you are.. you suck..

@ inspector019
Obviousley some thing went wrong for you in highschool or you wouldn't have said that.

She judges people ??? What do you think you just did in your rant??? Perhaps you don't like her because she is too much like you. Most people don't get along with people that they are just like them.