Is it normal that i resent my non virgin girlfriend

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I always had the conviction that it would be best to wait to lose my virginity to my wife. I held back from many woman through out many years of dating. Moments where girls had it inches in front of their pussy but i would say no. Well i met this girl but found out she wasn't a virgin so i decided to not date her. But we still hung out till the point we ended up having sex. I lost it to her and she knew that i wanted to wait. Now i resent her because she knew how much it meant to me

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  • LostAndBroken
    9 years ago | pl

    You shouldn't have done it if you didn't want to. I'm sure she didn't force you.

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  • reminiscent
    9 years ago

    Its not her fault...you made the choice to have sex with her. Its not her responsibility it was yours.

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  • LewSiffer
    9 years ago

    Normal to have those feelings...BUT you chose to sleep with her, you need to work on the relationship and get over it. take responsibility for your actions, even though you wanted to wait, you didn't.
    I had the EXACT same issue, and I had to move on. I even resented my gf's ex sex partners, even though she only had a few.

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  • RoseIsabella
    9 years ago

    Unless she forcibly aped you, you have no reason to resent her. If there's anyone you ought to be resentful of it's your own damn self!

    Don't act like a little biatch!

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  • PandaBitch
    9 years ago

    If u wanting to keep it then why r u lose ? so don't resent her n talk to yourself how come u lose it after wait many years? (- -)/

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  • shuggy-chan
    9 years ago

    Such is life

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  • ToxicCrayons
    9 years ago

    this is clearly the least of your problems

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  • blooddragon
    9 years ago

    doesn't count if you do her in the pooper

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  • thegypsysailor
    9 years ago

    It's lot better to be an experienced lover when you marry, than to give a girl a lousy night of fumbling around in the bedroom for her first experience with you. Go forth and have fun and get some experience; your wife will really appreciate it.
    Oh, yeah, and thank your present gf for helping you get going on this wonderful thing called sex.

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