Is it normal that i resent my friends but can't confront them?

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I live with three of my best friends. Two of them are extremely messy/dirty and I have spoken with them many times about cleanliness but nothing changes. When I see the messes they leave (especially in the kitchen) I get this uncontrollable feeling of hate/resentment towards them, but when I see them somehow I can't talk about it and all of a sudden everything seems ok. But recently when I'm alone it's gotten so bad that I can't imagine living with the for a second past our lease is up (2 months from now). I hate their actions but I love them as people. Is this normal?

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  • Anonymous Post Author
    12 years ago

    Thanks guys, I'm gonna move out as soon as I can. Appreciate it, because I thought I was a horrible person for feeling this way but it's really nice to know that it's completely normal.

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  • macmiller
    12 years ago

    This is exactly why I can't live with my friends, and they keep nagging me wanting to get big place next year. Never gonna happen. Move Out, people don't change, and it could ruin your friendship.

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  • AngAnders112
    12 years ago

    they know you'll never confront them about it, which is why they continuously take advantage of you. get out as soon as possible before the relationships are completely destroyed.

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  • pambambam
    12 years ago

    its normal.But if there messy,
    theyre not gonna change. move out.

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