Is it normal that i resent my boyfriend's son?

Stop it. Just because "You" don't like the kid, doesn't give you the right to say it's not his. Fuck. Females always complain "But the man won't take care of the kid" and when one does, this shit comes up.

It sounds like you have jealousy issues.

i feel bad for the child being stuck with a step-mom who takes her issues out on him for no other reason that the fact that he was born...

in all honesty i think the father and son would be better off with someone else to be mommy - someone less self-centered

you sick whore

wow YOU HORRABLE PERSON ALL 4 YEAR OLDS ARE RUDE AT TIMES AND WHO THE HELL CARES IF THERE NOT THE SAME!

You don't deserve him.

No, it is not normal to project whatever insecurities, problems, bitterness, and hatred you have for yourself, your boyfriend, your relationship, and god knows what else, on an innocent 4 year old kid.

It's a sign of weakness, and most people are stronger than that.

Wow you people are rude! I was more so looking for someone to give me some advice on how I can move forward and accept this new child into my life! I guess I'm the only one in this world who has had this problem of accepting a step child! You act like I'm beating the kid or verbally abusing him, which I'm not! That is not the kind of person I am! You all are just plain mean. Thanks for all the help

I wonder what age you are and how long you have been going out with him?

HE should be having quality time with his son WITHOUT you being there! You are not a babysitter for him and it's obvious the child doesn't like you 'stealing' his dad's time either. So stay away when the child is there!!

Go shopping or stay at your mom's.

Don't make a rotten evil bitch out of yourself or this man will not have you in his life for too much longer. Kids are like puppies and it's only a horrible person who wants to abuse them.

Be very very careful! This is not your child to make ANY comment about and your man loves him. You should stay out of the picture and even if you pretend to like him, kids aren't stupid, he knows you hate him - so he hates you too!!

He will always have his son but gfs (who don't like his son) will come and go.

Good luck - keep your opinions to yourself!!

I guess you've never studied science. During conception, when the embryo is becoming a mess of gloop, the genes start to come together. Divisions occur and DNA takes on a unique hybrid structure from both parents. Heredity is very selective. Have you ever heard of the Dutch monk that discovered how heredity works in plants? Dominant and recessive genes?! Purple flowers are dominant and White flowers are recessive. In humans, darker skin is more dominant than lighter skin.

Do you get what I'm saying?

Point in question, people take after different traits. Just because he doesn't really resemble The father doesn't mean that he isn't his son and nor does it mean that someone cheated. He probably took on the traits of a relative. It could've been a distant relative or a fairly recent one. Heredity is a curious thing.

Regardless, of the outcome it doesn't give you the right to unleash your stupidities and curious emotions out on his son. He should leave you. He doesn't deserve to be with someone as ignorant as you. Stop spilling your negativities on his son. It could end up having a negative impact on his life later on and you'd be the blame.

Cheers!

holy fu(k 68 percent normal ARE YOU FU(KING KIDDING ME!

now that im calm most ears are diffrent no really no lie like size shape... color... ear lobes