Is it normal that i resent my boyfriend because of sex?

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I have been with my boyf for 4 months now and i've known him for 4 years almost. We know each other so well and us getting together seemed to be the next step even though we were best friends at the time. Im 18 and trust me I am one horny girl when it comes to sex and self pleasuring but I'm still a virgin. We haven't gone there yet but I'm dying to but just not as much as my boyfriend. He is very forward but we've talked about us waiting and he's ok with it. I know he wouldn't go telling his friends about it because i trust him 100%. I resent him sometimes because he's almost too nice but I know I can't have it both ways.... I know I want some serious sex but the fact I love him so much I don't wanna mix the relationship up by adding it in because I'll resent him even more because i think i'll feel i'm only wanted for sex....I'm undecided as to whether I should take the next step though...I've got my pussy waxed and I'm telling myself I should go for it but I'm unsure...Guys I need some advice from your own experiences...I would really appreciate it!!

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  • Peaches&Cream
    11 years ago

    I've broken up with him recently, things didnt work out...

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  • MssMurd3r
    12 years ago

    Peaches just take your time hun. Don't let anyone pressure you. Especially not your parents. Take it slow. Good luck.

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    • Peaches&Cream
      12 years ago

      Thank You MissMurd3r! Let's hope it all works out

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  • Peaches&Cream
    12 years ago

    I would really appreciate your advice :)

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  • bigguy2010
    12 years ago

    If you are this confused, then you are not ready. If he's unwilling to wait, then he's not interested in you... just your genatalia. .

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  • TerryVie
    12 years ago

    Seriously?

    you are NOT having sex in a relationship because you'd feel the relationship would be about SEX?

    that kind of sounds to me like

    Oh, i'm cooking without salt, because i'm afraid my food will taste only like salt!

    As much as salt is an integral element in cooking, sexuality is an integral part of a relationship.

    Thats not to say every relationship HAS to have sex, but heck, you BOTH want it. Why hold yourself back like that?

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  • MssMurd3r
    12 years ago

    You don't sound like you are mature enough for sex yet.

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    • Peaches&Cream
      12 years ago

      It's not that Im not mature enough for sex, I feel I am but i keep getting told it'll happen when it happens. I feel pressurised even though I'm the only one putting pressure on myself. My parents are intefering too though which makes it a whole lot more complicated!! My boyfriend isn't just in it for sex, trust me, I love him to pieces and I'd do anything for him but I'm sti;; so confused. . .

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