Is it normal that i rely excessively on my best friend?

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My best friend/roommate is the person I feel most comfortable around and who knows the most about me. I feel like I rely heavily on her. I have a bunch of other friends and am completely normal socially but am most attached to her. I have a huge fear of losing her. Is it weird that I am that attached?

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Based on 31 votes (26 yes)
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  • ThousandPoundsOfGanja
    10 years ago

    We find solace in other human beings, it seems to me like you are in love with her, no? If so, YOLO, ask her how she feels, if you don't, you might regret it forever... then again if you do, you might regret that forever... sigh...

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  • SeaSky
    10 years ago

    The Roommate. Watch it, don't be like that and you'll be fine.

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  • agentchaos
    10 years ago

    youre dependent on her, its not healthy but if it helps stick to it

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  • clichedparadise
    10 years ago

    Although it's completely normal to feel attached to a friend, your attachment is a bit excessive. It seems that you might be insecure and dependent on your friend and are worried about losing her rather than being in love with her. My advice is to try to develop other interests outside of your friend and to develop stronger friendships with your other friends so you're not as dependent.
    I had the same problem with my best friend but I branched out and the friendship is much healthier today :)

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  • Mountaingirl
    10 years ago

    Thank you all for your comments!

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