Is it normal that i regret a relationahip as soon as i say yes.

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What happens is that i like a guy. He likes me. He askes me out and i say yes. Then i will lie in bed later that night and think why the hell did i say yes! An all i want to do is get out of the relationship without feeling that i am a lier and i only said yes as a joke when i really did like him. I dont wanna feel like i led him on or took the mick but i want to know if its normal and what should i do? Just letting you know i was bullied really badly at school when i was 11/12. Dont know if this has anything to do with it.

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  • me_:)
    11 years ago

    I know exactly what you mean, I used to be like this. I'd like a guy for ages, we'd be seeing each other and as soon as we'd make it official I'd got off of him. It's happened with about 5 different blokes. I never thought I'd be able to stick with anyone, I got really down about it and even went through a stage of thinking I was gay. However now I'm with my partner, we've been together for 2 years, were engaged, living together and I've never been happier :) I think the other guys were just frogs I had to kiss before I met my prince :) chin up, one day you'll meet mr right!

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  • fartonmyface
    11 years ago

    Agh you're one of those girls who guys hate because you like them one day and then completely change the next day. Look, you obviously aren't looking for a relationship or companionship, so save yourself and other poor dudes the agony and don't get involved with them.. Because you're right, you did lead them on. And yes, you did hurt their feelings. And yes, they will be affected by it for a while.

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  • Kaytii_Louiise
    11 years ago

    No i dont and i cant really talkto my dad about my relationships.

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  • Short4Words
    11 years ago

    It may, do you have a supportive Mom to talk to? She might've had a similar issue when she was young.

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