Is it normal that i refuse to give head

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I refuse to give head. I find it gross and I just won't do it; guys will always ask me to during or before sex and I just find it awkward and want to avoid the conversation altogether; whenever I feel like I'm going to get in a situation where they will expect it I feel the need to tell the guy before that I don't give head..I still want the guy to go down on me though so I feel like I'm being selfish..am I the only one that feels this way?

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  • disthing
    11 years ago

    It's fine if you really don't like it. I wouldn't want a girl to go down on me unless she was enjoying it too - it'd result in a bad blowjob and would be a mood killer.

    But unless the guys you are with are generous, you shouldn't expect them to go down on you; I don't enjoy giving a girl head enough to do it when she's never going to return the favour.

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  • Captain_Kegstand
    11 years ago

    So he gives you oral favors, and you refuse to help the guy out? Seems a little one sided! I hope the rest of your relationship doesn't work like this!

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  • Shackleford96
    11 years ago

    I agree with LC, and why should you expect him to eat you out when you won't do essentially the same for him? Selfish.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    I think if you want them to go down on you, you should return the favour.

    Personally, I would go down on my partner (when I get one again) and have in the past. You don't have to have him come in your mouth or he could wear a condom.

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    • NoraBaker
      11 years ago

      Personally, I don't like to eat candy with the wrapper still on it, but I guess that's the price a girl's gotta pay in these modern days to be safe... From eating those empty calories. :D

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        Well, I mean I don't either but for the females that don't like the cream candy (can't believe I just wrote that XD) it's a good alternative.

        And besides, it's meant to be good for you and stuff XD

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    • Maggie143
      11 years ago

      Condoms, to me, have a gross taste to them.

      To the OP, it's not really fair to expect the man to go down on you, if you don't return the favor/

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      • [Old Memory]
        11 years ago

        True, as I said, I don't prefer them myself but it's an option if OP does not like it natural. Flavoured ones aren't that bad though.

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  • [Old Memory]
    11 years ago

    Giving head is fun, it is not normal that you are refusing. What's the big deal, really?

    You don't do it because it's your favourite pastime. You do it because you want to make your partner feel fantastic.

    If you are withholding on something like that, then it makes you seem like a jerk. You should figure out what your problem is with it and address the situation. Oral sex is a very normal part of intercourse.

    And yes, you are being selfish.

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  • lc1988
    11 years ago

    Yeah, you're being selfish.

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  • UnrecognizableMan
    11 years ago

    You are not being selfish.

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  • xxYounqStunnaxx
    11 years ago

    Well I don't necessarily expect them to go down on me idk it's just diff..the guys I been with like doing that I just don't like doing it back

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  • Avant-Garde
    11 years ago

    I agree, it's disgusting.

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  • jermath35
    11 years ago

    Opposite from my gf she said she likes my cum after!

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  • honeybeee
    11 years ago

    y do people always comment on their own stories and act like it's someone else!!

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  • chubbawubba69
    11 years ago

    It's normal but prudish. You sound just like my wife who likes me going down but never wants to herself. She has finally started to occasionally after many years.

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  • thinkingaboutit
    11 years ago

    No, you are not the only one. I have done that for the longest.

    But you shouldn't expect a guy to eat you. Unless he really really wants to.

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