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I don't know why but every time I think of High School, it's as if I WANT someone to get mad and try to brawl me. I WANT to fight, and I WANT to hurt them. Is this normal?
As somebody who actually does kumite competitions and fights in the MMA league... my answer to you would be: no. no you don't.
Let's see how fun it is when you accidentally break someone else's nose with a sloppy, uncontrolled punch or if somebody kicks your ribs so hard that it burns for days after.
Fighting is not fun.
And if you have never been in a real fight before, buddy I have a surprise for you:
No matter how fit you are, how many pushups you can do or how far you can run...there is a MASSIVE difference between being 'fit' and being 'fighting fit'. you would be out of breath so fast and your opponent will have you at his mercy.
Stop trying to keep your 'rage' pent up and rather seek anger management help
agreed. ^
All it takes is for 1 slip up you may accidentally punch someone in the temple or they could fall to the ground hit their head really hard and they could die. Or it could be you that it happens to. Its rare but it happens.
Honestly its people that resort to violence instead of using their words that really irritate me. Grow up.
It is not actually that rare either. You can also hit somebody on the chest just perfectly between heartbeats and that would kill the person.
Even in cricket, the other day Australian cricketer, Phil Hughes, was bowled against his neck beneath his ear. He slipped into a coma and died three days after.
Accidents happen in a heartbeat - even between heartbeats.
What makes me angry is when people who know nothing about fighting tell other people to take up MMA. If you don't know what you are doing, you don't belong in that scene in the first place.
We get teached extensively about how to do stuff, what never to do, we get taught in sports science (how bodies work, how to train and blah blah)
Now imagine somebody like the OP, who wants to "beat up people" coz he thinks it is fun and adds some sort of status to him, go up against a professional like me. He can not only hurt himself, but also (maybe) me. He could break my leg because he decided to kick a Mae Geri to my knee (a kick you never kick to the knee)
Heres sme news for you: I happen to have been in MANY fghts before due to this aggresion, and I have NEVER lost one. I have been expelled from 5 schools for this, and for breaking sombodies nose. I have never even HURT my hand in a fight, and every expert ive been to says my technique is flawless. Ive never taken any fight classes, but I am still unexcelled when It comes to it.
Good for you bro. Go to a mental hospital because anyone who can get pleasure or joy from hurting random people need to be locked the fuck up.
AND WHAT EXPERTS ARE TELLING YOU THIS?! Seeing as you've never been to any "fighting classes" as you say. Go get help you insane.
Is it normal that I started Tae Kwon Do when I was young and it made me more peaceful?
Funny thing about that, it's almost always the guy like you that gets hurt in this scenario.
Sadist. It doesn't always have to be sexual though. It isn't always sexual. But always wanting to show your dominance and making it so they'll remember. You're a Sadist.
I practice martial arts for 20 years now and I do also have these urges, I want somebody to attack me so I can put my fighting skills to the test on the streets, against someone I don't know. BUT I'm affraid to what I can do to the other person.
A few years ago my dad attended a sports demonstration. He didn't do that when I was a kid because he's physically handicapped. He didn't know what I was capable of and he got a bit frightened. He warned me not to use my full power in a fight, he actually made me promise. He told me to use necessary force only. My martial arts instructor also tells me I am extremely "explosive" with my punches and kicks.
I've been in situations where I got close to fighting, but I always manage to control the situation. I even got hit one time and didn't hit back, I just stayed extremely calm and that made my opponent nervous. Afterwards I would wish I would've hit back, and feel ashamed of myself for not doing so (especially with my martial arts background). But the point is, you can really hurt someone (or worse). And that would be something you'd have to live with your entire life.
Maybe MMA or some other type of controlled fighting can give you a way to let off some steam. With a good trainer you'll learn to control yourself and respect your opponent.
Good luck!
Redirect those violent urges somewhere else. Boxing, fighting, martial arts...
Don't be an ass to people.
I've had brawls with such people and it's no fun. What are we fighting for? He gets me mad, I don't take his shit. We fight. Both of us are left hurting afterwards. What was the effect? None! There was no effect. Just someone being an ass for the purpose of being an ass.
Try to re-direct those violent tendencies elsewhere. Like professional fighting, as many have already said.