Is it normal that i really want to be held?

I really want someone to hold me and make me feel safe. I feel like I'm too old to be feeling this way because I'm 20.

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91% Normal
Based on 56 votes (51 yes)
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Comments ( 12 )
  • PinkHairedFreak

    I'd really like to be held by Jack Frost right now because it is hot as hell tonight in Texas.

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    • NeofelisNebulosa

      Don't mess with Texas!

      I could not resist.

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      • PinkHairedFreak

        I take that campaign very seriously. I drive my friends nuts picking up litter after them and giving lectures. Littering and tossing a can in the trash instead of the recycle bin are the two easiest ways to make me mad. I know it's pathetic, but I can't help it.

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        • NeofelisNebulosa

          I didn't know it was for a campaign, I thought it was just a badass Texan saying

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          • PinkHairedFreak

            Lol no, it's an environmental campaign to stop/reduce littering in Texas, particularly on the highways.

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          • thegypsysailor

            Well really, it has been a badass Texan saying since back around the end of the Civil War.
            It's certainly wasn't thought up by some ad agency schmuck to get people to pick up litter!

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  • NathanScot

    Not my cup of tea.

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  • IsThisReallyIt?

    You will never get too old for wanting someone to hold you.

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  • IINtobeonthiswebsite

    Like Armose said, everyone likes to be held....just cause your 20 doesn't mean anything...we all want to feel safe. You are feeling some abandonment issues...which, depending on your situation is completely normal. You are growing up, possibly heading off on your own with work or college. It is a scary new place to be...so, don't beat yourself up.

    Don't go flocking into the wrong dudes arms!!! Girls tend to mix that up, think they are getting into intimacy, when, all the dude really wants is to bang you, go find someone else.

    Slow your roll...don't be in a hurry to fix anything, but, know that what you are experiencing is NORMAL. There should be a place you can go, get a hug...and NOTHING else!

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  • Arm0se

    Everyone loves to be held. Even cold unfeeling people.

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  • galen

    Perfectly normal. I'm a guy way beyond age 20, and I love to be held by my gal. Makes me feel very safe and calm and relaxed, and yet at the same time excited.

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  • NeofelisNebulosa

    I love to be held :) cuddling is wonderful

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