Is it normal that i really hate my mother?
I just think she's a nasty person. Normally I'm accepting of other peoples views but hers are just borderline ridiculous.
For example, when talking about Whitney Houston's death (RIP) my Mother said about it being "self inflicted" and deserving of death. I just found that so ignorant. We had quite a solid debate/argument following that about how drug addiction is a disease and not deserving of death. I just can't really like anyone who has such an ignorant, narrow minded view.
Another example would be that she won't let me have my boyfriend in my room. When I ask why, she says she just doesn't feel comfortable with it. To an extent, I can understand this, but I would never do anything when my Mum was around anyway. And she says she trusts me. I just feel like she reacts with no empathy when I ask her things. And I hate that.
A last example would be, after my Grandad's death, she and my Aunt have been fighting over the will and who ends up getting what. I just think that's disgusting. That's literally all they've done and I just think it's horrible.
Is it normal to hate my Mum if she acts this way? Is it normal to hate my Mum regardless of how she acts?