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When i meet someone i randomly assume that they are huge assholes and jerks!
i have no ide why i do this. but when i start talking to them i realize they are pretty nice people is it normal to think everyones an asshole?
I don't know if it is normal but I feel like if you pay attention to a person you can generally get a pretty good idea of what they are like or if you would want to spend more time with them. Anyways, its good to be skeptical when meeting people but probably not good to think they are going to do mean and ahole like things.
If you've been around a lot of assholes in your life then you are 100% allowed to think that. I do! I went to a high school full of them! Now I think everyone's an asshole until proven otherwise. Totally normal. Most people are assholes anyways, so you've got a 90% chance of being right hah :P
I do the same thing I hate every person I meet till they talk to me and than I start to like them
Pretty good odds on your side if you ask me. But it's good to give people a chance first. First sign of assholery tell 'em to fuck off.
A vast part of society are assholes and you are right in presuming this.
Though when you do meet amazing people it should be treasured.
I think it's a defense mechanism against getting hurt.
Like if someone hurts your feelings then you can just write it off and say, "Well he's a douche".
There is nothing wrong with it. After all, all humans can choose to be pure or unpure which in that case no one is actualy pure because being pure is a choice not an absolute.