Is it normal that i prefer to date someone who takes life seriously?

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I’m a very analytical person who sees no use of humor. It doesn’t change reality and I’m a serious person in general. I prefer a girl who is conservative, religious and honest.

Going to bars, drinking out and visiting clubs is the last thing I’d ever do on this earth. I have Asperger’s and feel like this is a large reason of why I’m wired like this. I don’t think I’m strange, I’m just being myself.

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Based on 13 votes (12 yes)

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howaminotmyself

3 years ago

Humor is subjective.

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LloydAsher

3 years ago

Somehow my girlfriends gets a kick out of her seemingly robot boyfriend. Shes an emotional person, and satisfing that part of her is easy to anyone who has lived among humans long enough.

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Tommythecaty

3 years ago

You’re confusing “taking life seriously” with “fucking boring”

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  Subjective
  
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  - Tommythecaty
    
    3 years ago
    
    God damn, even that reply was fucking boring.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      To you it is. I don’t want to date people who cuss and cheat on whoever they date. What’s boring to you isn’t boring to others.
      
      I actually think “boring” people are more attractive because they don’t wear face piercings or have a million tattoos.
      
      However, It takes effort to drive an earring between your nose..
      
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      - Tommythecaty
        
        3 years ago
        
        😌zzzzzzzzzzzzzzz
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        3 years ago
        
        So how many narcotics did you take, Mr. Fun man?
        
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Mammal-lover

3 years ago

I mean humor is like half my life. I love laughing. I'm at my happiest during that. It's like eurohoric joy that hurts after a few minutes. Its fantastic.

But you do you. Besides clubs suck and bars are only nice with friends or if your dick scouting

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litelander8

3 years ago

Lame but sure.

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my_life_my_way

3 years ago

I’m the opposite, I couldn’t date a guy with a stick up his ass

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KholatKhult

3 years ago

That’s fine, find yourself a partner who feels the same way or atleast is accepting of that.

I think the only time people get angry at posts like this is when people try to push this belief on others or act like this is how life is “supposed to be” which would be dumb, but you don’t seem to be doing that.

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A-sharp

3 years ago

challenge your self. Do a 3some for once in your life. Let go once a while. become a whore 2 weekends a year ( fuck it !! ).

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Duskwing

3 years ago

Who says conservative, religious and honest people don’t visit bars and go drinking?

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Holzman_67

3 years ago

Hey we all have our own tastes and needs there is nothing wrong with it at all, in fact quite the opposite, you know what type of person you’re compatible with and traits to look for. Good luck finding them all I’d say is don’t narrow the field too thin

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hauntedbysandwiches

3 years ago

We are all different and all are attracted to different things. While I wouldn't be attracted to anyone without any sense of humor, it's normal to like what you like.

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raisinbran

3 years ago

Sorry, but humor is more important than anything. It's the bedrock of marriage and the reason the divorce rate is so low.

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- Anonymous Post Author
  
  3 years ago
  
  To you it is. But not most people. Honesty is the bedrock of marriage because no one wants to date a funny cheater.
  
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  - raisinbran
    
    3 years ago
    
    No, honesty, sincerity and character almost always lead to divorce. You can cheat and be a piece of shit as long as you can tell jokes and criticize your partner for not having a sense of humor about it.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      Just like that, no reply. At least I won an argument.
      
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      You sound like a troll. People in the 50s and 60s rarely divorced because adultery was illegal. Most Americans were religious and understood honesty.
      
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      - SmokeEverything
        
        3 years ago
        
        And people still cheated all the time
        
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        Anonymous Post Author
        
        3 years ago
        
        They didn’t because they were faithful to one another and had family values. The Left loves to make up lies and say America wasn’t great back then.
        
        It was. Make America Great Again!
        
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      - raisinbran
        
        3 years ago
        
        That's what I'm saying, honesty used to be important, now humor is. I think we're in agreement here.
        
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  - hauntedbysandwiches
    
    3 years ago
    
    Disagree. It's important for most people. Most people don't like to date a robot.
    
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    - Anonymous Post Author
      
      3 years ago
      
      That’s your opinion. It was the way 50 years ago when America was great.
      
      Now divorce is higher and 40% of children are born to unwed parents, largely because relationships are treated more fun than serious. Commitment is not a joke.
      
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noela

3 years ago

Yes.

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SkullsNRoses

3 years ago

It’s good to know your values and what you want from a partner. As long as you don’t try to push your lifestyle on other people (or the women you date) as the “correct” way of living there’s nothing wrong with this.

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bbrown95

3 years ago

I think it's normal. Everyone prefers something different. I like humor, but think it has a time and a place and it's difficult to talk to someone who can't ever be serious and has to turn everything into a joke.

I'm not a big fan of partying, clubbing, or going out to bars, either. I prefer a more quiet lifestyle. That stuff isn't for everybody.

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