Is it normal that i prefer to be alone most of the time ?

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Well, i'm 20 years old this year, and i'm in college now
Lately, I often feel tired when i go out with my friends, i prefer reading books alone or listening to music alone in my room..
I often say no to them when they asked me to go out, and it's make me feel bad, it's not that i don't like hanging out with them, it's really fun hanging out with them, but most of the time, i prefer to do things i like alone ..

is it normal that i like this ? other people i know seems very eager when their friends asked them to go out, i feel like i'm the only one who like to be alone :(

I'm afraid that if i continue to act like this, i will end up losing all of them, i don't want that, i love all of them, what do you think i should do ?

sorry if my english is not too good :(

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  • always2ambivalent
    11 years ago

    Hey, try not to get too worried about this. You aren't doing anything wrong at all. You just need to understand that everyone has a different personality and different preferences.

    You are probably just a shy/introverted person. It is completely normal to prefer being alone and doing things by yourself . That doesn't make you weird, but I would suggest trying to maintain these friendships and some sort of social involvement. If they are true friends, they would understand that you like to have alone time if you were to bring this topic up. Just try to be open and honest about everything. Do whatever makes you happy and causes the least amount of harm to others.

    Good luck and best wishes,
    A Fellow Human

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    • h4namizuki
      11 years ago

      Thank you for the advice fellow human

      Yep, i already tell them, and thank God they're all understand :)
      But i'm still feel bad with them though, so, i'm trying to fight my laziness and trying go out more with them now

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