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Like not even in a sexual way. I just like feel comfortable sharing a bed with other women, but when I share bed with men i feel self conscious and I can't even sleep.
Is it normal that I'd rather share a bed with my best friend than my boyfriend?
You could of rephrased this better.
Yes, it's natural to be comfortable around people you are not aiming to be attractive towards, as it eliminates being judged by people you want to impress, be it sexually or visually.
People will probably assume you are "in the closet", but from this alone, I doubt it.
We girls are softer and friendlier and with a boy there is always the possibility they will want sex in bed and who wants that pressure.
Even cuddling up to another girl in bed and having a few little kisses is just nice and its a more relaxed environment.
Yeah it is.
I am pretty sure that a boy will be more comfortable around other boys because they don't have to worry about what the opposite sex thinks of them.
I kinda understand you. I've had sleep overs with my girl friends and I wasn't concerned about anything; I just felt good and happy to talk until very late, but I wasn't very comfortable in bed, whereas whenever I've slept with a guy I've enjoyed sleeping next to him, feeling his breathe or being the little spoon even if Before i used to be concerned about my body. But just because he was obviously a guy I found attractive, I enjoyed it more.
But I do think I used to fear it more when I was younger. How old are you??