Is it normal that i (platonically) like a 12 year old?

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I am a 19 year old girl and I have always liked younger-looking boys in a platonic, non-sexual way. I never had "ped/ophilic" thoughts by definition. I'm just attracted to their youthful faces and personalities. When I imagine an ideal date with a 12 year old, I think of playing games, walking in the park, holding hands, giving each other cute kisses (mouth only) and just talking about the things we like.. Kind of like best friends, but being more significant to each other than that. Is it normal or bad to feel this way? I feel no attraction to guys my age. They feel gross, old, and all they want is to do adult things. Not fun or comfortable at all.

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  • Pumpurrnickel
    6 years ago

    Wanting to kiss 12-year-olds on the mouth isn't normal in the least.

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  • WiNkWOnK
    6 years ago

    its not okay

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  • MrDexter
    6 years ago

    You don't know what platonic means idiot. Platonic does not mean kissing on the mouth. You are a pedophile.

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  • deepdrowning
    6 years ago

    Do you know what platonic means? What you're describing is romantic, and is pedophilia. Platonic means just friendship.

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    • Pumpurrnickel
      6 years ago

      No it doesn't. Literally google "platonic definition" and it will say it includes love.

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      • Puppetmorty
        6 years ago

        Platonic love is how you love your parents or siblings.

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      • Countess_Kittycat
        6 years ago

        But not that kind of love. What we generally call platonic love is Agape, which is closest in Christian terms to the unconditional love Christ has for all humans, and that which is recommended Christians should feel for their neighbors. Friendship is Philia, another type of love, and the love described by the OP is Eros or lustful love.

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      • deepdrowning
        6 years ago

        Platonic love is how you love a friend or sibling. You're describing a significant other.

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  • rayb12
    6 years ago

    To go on a date and give mouth kisses to a child is illegal and could get you shot by the parent.

    No harm or shame in having fantasies in your head. It is perfectly good to dream any dreams you do.

    But this one is not compatible with reality in most societies.

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  • Indigobloom1
    5 years ago

    You are a paedo wtf. "kisses on mouth" don't act on those thoughts! Block those thoughts out now and fast

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  • [Old Memory]
    6 years ago

    Disturbing. You either have some really bad psychological problems or you just need to grow up.

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  • edwininthematrix
    6 years ago

    you must be hanging with some really mature 19 year olds if you think they all want to do "adult" things.

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  • LuxM4G
    6 years ago

    It would have to be a very special kid in order to go on a date with a 19 year old young girl. I had one platonic relationship with a girl that same age when i was thirteen, i was very unsuspecting of her intentions, i even dated older women online, shown them my genitalia and such, had sex phone with them.

    I'm currently a jaded person when it comes to pedo porn, it doesn't thrill me as much as regular porn does. I have even confessed this dark side on mine to a couple of ex girlfriends and they were okay with it, one was sixteen while i was twenty four, God she was beautiful... But after meeting my current girlfriend that is one year older than me, wise, smart and vivacious i found out how i wasted my time on a young girl that even though was an excellent film student and very mature, just didn't quite compared, by far...

    I dated two girls that had been molested in their childhood. My current girlfriend was so when she was fifteen by a man in his fourtys. Well... I can recognize a pedo miles away, because i was one once, still in remission... And you my friend are definitely one by what you have described so far. No shame in it though, haven't caused any harm to anyone yet, but you should get treatment because those fantasies are not healthy. It starts with a kiss in the mouth, then it quickly escalates to sexual abuse. I saw myself as a father to that young girl, just like you may see yourself as a mother, with good intentions and all, but it's not healthy. I've seen numerous mothers abusing their own son's and daughter's, from low to upper classes.

    There's something hidden away in your past life, the relationship with your parents most likely, that leads you to seek out to fulfill those wicked fantasies of yours. I would never hurt a child, in any way, but that's how it starts to a point where you can't discern real motherly, brotherly, friendly love from lust.

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  • Countess_Kittycat
    6 years ago

    Those ARE pedophilic (or whatever is the term for the preteen equivalent) thoughts. Of course it's not normal or ok. I believe you should not try to excuse it to yourself, you are already fantasizing about it, and that is always the first step to go astray. Assuming this is not a troll post, you should discourage yourself from such fantasies immediately, and if need be seek medical and psychological help.

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  • Tealights
    6 years ago

    Basically, you're a female pedo in denial.

    Good luck to you girl, don't get shot by some angry mom after you tell her you're pregnant with her 12 year son's baby after having sex in a "platonic" manner.

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  • xfg59
    6 years ago

    As a man, there's nothing quite like slipping your large adult dick between the supple, apple-shaped, cream-colored butt cheeks of a 12-year-old boy.

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    • LuxM4G
      6 years ago

      Charming.

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  • NinjaKitten
    6 years ago

    yeah i kinda get you.. you like the boys when they are still innocent and wont think about sex. you should leave the kisses out of that ideal date of yours. and every boy becomes a man and will start feeling the need to have sex. i get you tho. but leave your thoughts to a babysitter level. sorry if that sounds bad to you. but dating an underage in any matter. isn't really right. i know the innocence of a younger boy might make you feel more comfortable but
    boys will develop pervy ideas when they grow up. so if you pamper them too much, hold their hands, give them smooches. you kinda got to be ready for what they expect when they are 18. unless ur planning not to stay with the one kid.. and try to get another kid as replacement... then im just gonna say.. no..

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    • Tealights
      6 years ago

      You're sweet for empathizing.

      Nah, what this woman is saying is a typical thing most pedophiles say, with key sentences and words being: Non-sexual (repeated a bunch of times), platonic (repeated too), they're not like men (or women) my age, men (or women) my age are so mean/gross/unattractive (whatever negative word they use).

      .... and the list goes on.

      However, I get it. She's a woman. She can't forcefully penetrate anyone without the help of tools, which makes her seem less threatening. This is the same for female-stalkers, female-killers, female anything, because we're seen as nurturing. But with any bad situation, it's best to fear both men and women. If it helps, try to imagine a man saying this about a little 12 year old girl, it suddenly becomes more creepy right; especially saying "I want to mouth kiss and go on "platonic" dates ..." Nothing is platonic about romantic dates where you hold hands and mouth kiss.

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      • NinjaKitten
        6 years ago

        I agree with you. But we can never know what those kids will think of the situation. Wether they agree or disagree is the key. I dont think this woman plans on raping little boys.

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        • Tealights
          6 years ago

          It's about the psychological damage any adult can do to any child naive enough to agree to an adult relationship.

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  • GenderConfused
    6 years ago

    If i had a 12 year old son and found out he was seeing a 19 year old girl platonic or sexual i would be supportive and make sure that the young lady demands that he use protection when and if it becomes sexual. Because as a 12 year old boy unless he's gay he is going to want sex from you eventually if he doesn't already. You may be his first real contact with a girl. But at that age he definitely wants sex.
    Be careful nobody finds out when you do sleep with him and don't let it end in a bad way.
    But i say go for it. Personally i find hanging out with kids to be fun as i like their somewhat innocent outlook on life but i' never kissed any of them as they are usually my cousins and their friends.
    I was looking after a girls sleep over for my aunt once and had a bunch of teenager chicks daring each other to try to kiss me. I took the lucky girl into the bathroom and sat there for a while and the two of us ended up making sexual noises to freak the other girls out. Yo should have seen their eyes when we came out of there all dishevelled with or hair and clothes messed up. It was hilarious.

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