Is it normal that i only think about my boyfriend in this way?

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Ever since I met him and started liking him, up until we broke up and got back together afterwards, I haven't fantasized about ANYONE else but him. It's not that I find no one else cute, he's just the only person I enjoy thinking about. We have a very good relationship, we've never fought once. I don't like look up to him like a God or anything like that, I just only find him attractive like that. I thought it was normal for a while, but past boyfriends have had other girl crushes and he's admitted he liked a girl once. After seeing this website a lot I can tell most people have other crushes. IIN?

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  • jetstream13
    12 years ago

    Is he your first boyfriend? If he was your first crush and he's the only guy you've ever dated, it's perfectly normal. He's just the only one you're interested in right now, because you haven't come across any other guys you want to be with. Nothing wrong with that. It just means you're choosy about what guys you like and want to be with, and that's a good thing because it'll stop you from dating the wrong type of guys.

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    • iamacheeseburger
      12 years ago

      No, he's not my fist but he's the best person I've ever met, and the first guy I cared about this much. ^_^ Thanks though!

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  • Aleks85
    12 years ago

    It's called love. Hopefully it lasts and is returned for you.

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  • mj63
    12 years ago

    I've been with a guy for 3 years, had about 7 or 8 boyfriends before that and I am completelyyy in love with my boyfriend now! I never even look at another guy or think about them and obviously I can tell an ugly guy apart from an attractive one but I'm never attracted to any if that makes sense, and vice versa with my boyf. it's perfectly normal I've got lots of friends who are the same howeverrr I can't say this feeling will last forever cuz I've also got lots of friends who were like this and feelings changed suddenly. If this is your first boyfriend it's more likely this is an obsession tht over time you'll grow out of, but if you two love each other then may not :)

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  • XOXO...
    12 years ago

    TOTALLY NORMAL!! SEEING AS I FEEL THAT WAY ABOUT MY EX WHO WAS MY BESTII FIRST! We were better off as friends but the essence of our relationship and the comfortability is what i want from a future one =) i want someone who accepts my weird bratty awkward ways and still loves me for me

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  • iamacheeseburger
    12 years ago

    Thanks..it's cool that guys can feel that way too. I'm glad I'm not the only one. :)

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  • [Old Memory]
    12 years ago

    I'm the same way with my girlfriend. Although I know that she has her typical Hollywood crushes and fantasies like that, I cannot think of anyone but her. She's truly the only one for me.

    I don't know if it's normal, but it's a good thing because it means you're loyal and won't do anything bad :)

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    • RaNdOmPoPcOrN
      12 years ago

      aww <3

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