Is it normal that i only seem to be interested in older men?

Nothing wrong with you at all. My hubby is 13 years my senior. Who you're attracted to is a combination of things that go beyond physical chemistry - emotional and mental compatibility are crucial.

Like you, I simply never met guys my age who were of interest. Very often, older men have more to offer: they're stable. They're no longer behaving like idiots (binge drinking, driving recklessly, partying all weekend, etc.). They know what they want; they're ready to settle down. Very often, they're more responsible.

As for growing old WITH someone - I'd rather grow old with them than because of them. At the time I met my hubby, being with someone my own age would have made me miserable. More than that, I would prefer to have twenty wonderful years, than fifty mediocre or even horrible ones.

OP, ask yourself: What do you see in the older guys that you don't in the younger ones? Chances are that what draws you to older men are things that come with maturity. Not that younger men *can't* have those qualities, but all too often, they don't.

It also depends on your life experiences, as to who you'll be best suited to. I was homeless at 16, so by age 19, I was more like a 25-year-old in many regards. I was used to responsibility, having to run a household, look after myself, hold down a full-time job, and so on. Many 19-year-olds are *capable* of it - but that doesn't mean they DO it.

So yes, you're perfectly normal. Who makes a good mate for you is as individual as you are. Personally, I think it's fantastic that you recognise that you're not happy with a guy your age, rather than living a lie. I think that shows maturity on your part.

Same with me. I love older men. I am 18 years old this year and I had sex with a guy that is 28 not too long ago. It was amazing I must say, and since then I have been particularly interested in older men, they are so much more experienced, u know? :)

You don't have to have everything in common to have a good relationship, and you don't have to have ANYTHING in common to have good sex. What you like is what you like, and nobody can tell you it's wrong as long as everyone involved is a consenting adult.

I'm an older guy (47) who loves younger women. I find them delightfully open-minded, fun, and unspoiled compared with women my own age. . . and I like to be with someone who is young and hot enough for me to physically worship in bed.

The problem for me is that I feel like I can't make the first move on the women I'm interested in, for fear of being creepy. I'm up for a relationship but not clingy or jealous or needy, so if a young woman is interested, she just needs to let me know, and let me know what her boundaries are.

So, do you live in Northern California? I'd love to meet some interested young women! :)

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i have the same situation but in a opposite way it seem all younger guys are interested in me.. but i dont think age matters , who you like is your choice dont let age determine it

It's totally normal. In fact, I am in the same boat. Only slightly younger than you. So if you are not normal, than I must be crazy. But I think we are both attracted to their experiences, and their charm. I just wanted you to know, you are not alone.

Theres many younger women who like older men. I personally find it disgusting & I want to GROW old with someone. Im not saying youre wrong. Just different views.

Run away as fast as you can. I married an "older man". He is sick all the time and I'm always by myself . You are carving out a very sad life for yourself.