Is it normal that i only like guys from games/movie/books?

There's a boy who made a similar post recently, except he was stating that he preferred girls in anime and disliked real ones. Perhaps you two should get together and try to show each that there's more to people than what you see on tv and not everyone is the same.

Because they are designed to be flawless.
Get up and smell the real world darlin,

If you are serious (not just using hyperbole or seeking attention) and suffer from genuine depression and suicidal thoughts, you NEED to speak to someone about it, somebody you can trust.

However, if you are just using hyperbole or seeking attention, there are people who genuinely do want to die and hate every moment of their existence. It's insulting to pretend to be in such a state just because you enjoy the drama it creates. Never cry wolf.

Regardless, just because you haven't found any boys you like doesn't mean you won't. You're attaching yourself to these characters, who are, by the way, fictional and whose every aspect is produced by some guy or girl with a pen and paper behind the scenes, because you desire romantic company but know nobody who fits the bill. We don't all have crushes on someone at every moment. Sometimes there is nobody in our lives who interests us in that way. Maybe you will have to wait until you finally move away, but hey, perhaps the wait will be worth it if you do meet a guy just right for you.

Put it down, whatever it is. You're getting unrealistic expectations and it's messing with your head. You need to learn to be happy with the simpler things. Not everyone has the guts, or the luck to live the life of a book character. You're just narrowing down your options to very slim. You need to remember, that even in books you see the andventure, not the day to day life. Life's kinda like that too, you have your adventures but there are also times when nothing really happens. Just find someone you like and stick around until their adventure begins.

I think you spend too much time with games, movies and books. Have you ever had a relationship with a man? Try to take a break from entertainment because media is warping your view of men. Real men have been sexually satisfying for real women since the dawn of time. These fake men are not historically or biologically necessary for sexual arousal.

ah yeah... I get you... although you just don't need my comment.. i really need to share my feelings!!
boys are desperate.. all the men who I meet are way selfish..... they are careless !! I don't say that all of them are that way... but still....

You sound like a dumb teeny bopper :/ there's plenty of real guys that are great but don't expect a hot wizard or a sweet emotional soldier to come sweeping you off your feet. Life is not a movie.

yes it's normal.....tell me about it ......oh guys are just tiering.........i even create my own guy in my mind...yeah heaven does exicte and they call me freak

I assure you ending it will not solve any problems. Ending it will only force you to face them, so realistically, facing them in the first place will only save you from dealing with them again in a harsher form. If I'm making sense?
Your problem right meow, is that you can't find a real boy to like, correct? So perhaps you could patiently wait, or not even care about finding the right guy, and do things that YOU enjoy doing.. And in due time, the right time, you will bump into that one person, real person, who just connects with you and you with him.
Don't end it, just be strong!

You mean, people in completely fictional, drama, non-possible or likely scenarios are more exciting than people that are stuck in reality where those things never happen because the opportunity never arises due to most of it being fiction or unlikely to happen? Well son of a gun.

But in all honesty, I somewhat agree, just in the reverse. Most girls I have known have been just as boring, if not more so. There social activities are just...Ugh.

However, you don't realize something. Nobody can compare to the characters, male or female, in these books. Just as you cannot match the females that are more entertaining than the boring females, or the limitation of excitement anyone can bring.

You have to think, why would this character want "you", though. This character, of excitement, challenge, danger, and so on. Why would someone from such a world (fictional) if was reality, want someone from this world (reality)? They'd find you, me, and anyone else in this world, boring.

The only "real" people in our reality that we can consider special, are those that do bad things. Which again, such people would not care an awful lot about people such as yourself, I, or anyone else.

It's quite sad, come to think of it. We live in a world where we make our own world, our own characters, only to be teased that we can't be one with the world and characters we have made.

In a way, our stories aren't happy endings, just more sadness.

I agree, I live in a town with chavs, when I read books and the author has created a great male character I'd like to take him out the book and marry him.

It's normal to be in love with fictional characters, BUT it's not normal to be so depressed that you want to "end it" in order to be with them.

You need to begin healing yourself by learning to think positively and changing your perspective on life. An awesome site that will help you with this is Tiny Buddha dot com. Both my brother and I use that site and it has helped us tremendously with taking off our jade-colored glasses. Try it and see what happens. What have you got to lose?

Hey, don't end it. I used to think exactly like you a few years ago and I would only get infatuated by videogame characters and never real guys, I thought they were boring as well. Then later on I realized that I was just around the wrong people, and that the men who interest me are the ones who like stuff I like :) (videogames!) you can always meet people online.
Though I've never been in a relationship...just had crushes gone wrong, but that's a whole different level of depressing... haha.

Online dating works wonders, too.

Maybe he can move to where you are.

Well, if all of the guys in your vicinity suck, then yeah.

Move to a city. There's all kinds of men there.

I don't do well with the dramatics, and telling you not to off yourself. It's not my style, and, well, I don't have any good reason to tell you not to. I'm not a pro-lifer.

Since I feel I should tell you something in the direction of not offing yourself... I can say this. Life can get better. Mine has. I have lived some very, very dark days and as of recently, things have become more light. There is much hope for my future. I have dreams, and maybe one day I can make them happen. I would never have been able to feel like this, and feel the happiness in my future if I had offed myself.

You only have one to live, that we know of.

If it's not so horrible, maybe you should stick with it. The next life, or lack there of, the unknown, can be a very terrible thing.

Unless you've met and got to know every single boy where you live, you're wrong.

Oh i can relate how temping guys in books can be! Try to write down what it is about the specific characters that you like and try to find this in real men!

No one is perfect, though!

"If it continues, I may just end it...Maybe then I could be with them if "heaven" does exist..."

Yeah, about that...

Every crush I've had for the past 5 years has been a celebrity. Don't beat yourself up over it.

Would you fuck Kenny from The Walking Dead (the telltale version)?